Posted by Miss Celtic
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
I just hope Cheryl can stay focused on her anger! She is only going to set herself up for more heartache whether it be in 5 days, 5 months, or even 5 years....once a cheat.......always a cheat in my view!! Maybe even once you could forgive, but 4 or 5 different women??? NAH!!!!
And all thats gonna happen is he will know in future all he needs to do is turn it on her, which he HAS done, make herself doubt her ability of being a wife.....and turn on the water works and HEY PRESTO....forgiveness!!!! Im sorry but if Cheryl is gonna stand by and accept blame that she isnt there enough for him then she isnt as sensible as I maybe thought! Yes there is that crazy little thing called LOVE but where the hell does it stop??? How many times has she to humiliate herself over him???
She made an effort at their marriage, just because she cant be there 24/7 giving him constant attention like a CHILD, and wants her own career rather than live on his....dont give him the right to blame her for him not being able to keep his dirty paws to himself!!!! Committed to the person he married!!!! Is it not what marriage is??? To stand by each other....this means when she is working away hard at her career, he should support her, not stray!!!!
He obviously would rather she was at home, living off HIS money, so everything is HIS rules...he does as he pleases while she stays at home - NO WAY!!!!!!! Nothing is worth that lifestyle......no way!!!!!!!
CHERYL - YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!! THERE IS BETTER OUT THERE FOR YOU xxx
Posted 04/03/2010 12:51:37
Posted by alib01
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
Oh for goodness sake - enough already!!! Go away Cheryl - go to America and never come back
Posted 04/03/2010 13:29:21
Posted by Miss Celtic
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
hahahaha - good point! there is that way of looking at it too lol, i just still think she deserves so much more....but you are right......if she gonna keep running back then YIP.....on ye go and shut up about it!!! lol xx
Posted 04/03/2010 13:33:44
Posted by Tinkerbell.x
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
WTF is she doing. if she does give him another chance then she deserves all she gets... she expect people to feel sorry for her and be there for her... but if she goes ahead and give him another chance he will do it again!
silly cow x
Posted 04/03/2010 14:25:40
Posted by Miss Celtic
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
she must obviously love him VERY VERY MUCH which is fair enough....but she is obviously gonna have to accept that she comes SECOND BEST to these slappers he is sleepin with.....bugger that!!! imagine being with a man knowing that he had his hands all over these other women claiming to have been with him....it sickens me to even think about my man behaving that way!!
and if she happy to do that then yes you are correct - she cannot expect people to feel sorry for her....it takes more of a stronger woman to walk away!!!!!xx
Posted 04/03/2010 14:35:52
Posted by jemma1123
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
Theres a difference to feeling lonely because your wife has a career (wow big boo hoo) and sitting at home alone, compared to feeling lonely and therefore going and sleeping with other people!
Even if he is "vulnerable and immature and easy prey for predatory women" doesn't mean he has to go along with that and actually sleep with them. Theres a poin where women might throw themselves at him, doesn't mean he has to accept it with open arms.
He's a disgraceful man and if she accepts him back, it just supports people cheating. Ive recently heard some guys now thinking it's okay to go and cheat on their partners because 'john terry did it and ashley cole did it...and their wives just stayed with them'!
How sad
Posted 04/03/2010 18:27:35
Posted by cruisegirl50
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
Cheryl and Peter Andre should get together. They would be perfect for each other. She can do so much better than Ashley Cole who has no respct for her at all & is a loser. Ditch him for good Cheryl.
Posted 04/03/2010 19:22:48
Posted by wchantelle
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
she is doing v.much good thing
they are so made suitable for each other,
girls throw themselve towards ashley just cause he got money and stuff;
you go cheryl !!
marriage is not always perfect; you have to go through everything
xxx
Posted 04/03/2010 21:03:45
Posted by hockeygirl
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
Can she milk any more column inches out of her 'heartbreak'? I don't need a minute by minute update I'm v bored now and wish they would both disappear
Posted 04/03/2010 21:41:11
Posted by emerald
RE: Cheryl to fly out to see Ash!
hockeygirl Yep me too!! Doesn't matter if there are real issues in the marriage now, the media furore will stop any good coming from counselling now! She should have gone to counselling with Ashley after the first affair was announced, nothing was really resolved then and even though she's stood by him she has rubbed his nose in that affair in every article since, just by saying she doesn't want to discuss it the matter is brought up! I'm not excusing him for the text sex or the affair but that should have been a wake up call that something was seriously missing in their marriage.
If she wanted to forgive and move on that first time round they should have got marriage counselling then and not just tried to brush it under the carpet. If you believe only 2% of all the mag articles and media stuff over the past 18 months it's been that Ashley wanted them to start the family she promised him, then she changed her mind, then it was Cheryl the solo artist, Cheryl US bid then her changing her mind so many times it's ridiculous! Celebs marriages are like fitting in a date and time on the calendar for a quick snog before off again, it's no wonder so many fail lol!!
So please closer let Cheryl and Ashley go to the loo in private and give it a rest!!
Posted 05/03/2010 02:04:33