Posted by LauraH85
RE: Cheryl to give Ash another chance?
Cheryl should have some dignity and walk away. Ashley has cheated on her too many times and obviously doesn't respect her otherwise he wouldn't have done it!! Why would anyone want to be with someone that does that to them, she could have anyone at a drop of a hat. I would rather be lonely than be with someone like him.
Posted 08/03/2010 10:55:01
Posted by Miss Celtic
RE: Cheryl to give Ash another chance?
HIGH 5 Laura...ive done all my feeling sorry for her tho! If she takes him back then its her own funeral basically! Yes she obviously luvs him, yes she took marriage vows to stick by him, but YES SO DID HE!!!! She cannot keep expecting publics sympathy tho!! This will teach him nothing except that its ok to be a cheating sleeze and a few weeks of crying down a phone will make it all better!!!.....
We are all different as humans and feelings affect us different but I just know for a fact, i couldnt cope living with my man no matter how much I luv him knowing he had cheated even just ONCE!!!!!!!!!.....the thought of him with someone else would just haunt me forever, everytime I kissed him, I would picture him kissing the other woman etc, I wouldnt get past all that, it would hurt too much. And thats where Laura is correct.....i think it would easier to be alone than live like that!! It takes more of a woman to just walk away!!! But we are all different I suppose!!!
I just hope if she does take him back, it will be worth it!! Cos all I can see is the headlines 3 months down the line that he has been at it again!!!! Once a cheater, always a cheater in my books!!! Esp considerin thats a total of 5 already!!!!x
Posted 08/03/2010 12:10:41
Posted by nicole123
RE: Cheryl to give Ash another chance?
i agree with all the comments and if she was thinking proper she would think this too i hope. I think she won't leave she take him back as for some reason she can see what we all can't see, if this was me i would have gone along time ago but as one of you have already said were all different. I don't condone violence but he deserves a slap for what hes done five times to many and he now has the cheek to blame her and says they should have counselling which would have been the right thing to do but what does he decide to do have an affair lol.
I think if she takes him back it will be her own funeral and she can kiss her career good bye as in my eyes she will lose creaditability and as a role model she needs to think long and hard what message she will send out to her young fans if she does. remember what you said Cheryal before you met him if any guy cheated on you that would be it so why don't you take that advise, have some dignity and move on it will be hard but atleast it will be the right thing to be honest i'm quite bored of this story and think they are both using the situation for there own agendas........to be continued i bet lol
Posted 08/03/2010 18:39:28
Posted by gummy bear
RE: Cheryl to give Ash another chance?
whreres your mates and family i hope there advising you not to take him back if you do hel do it again and again. have some respect for yourself coz he certainly doesnt have any for you or he would never have cheated. you could never trust him again. how could he ever say any of it was your fault, dont listen hes not worth it.hold your head high and walk away, or peolple will lose all respect for you and you will also lose your credibility to young girls look up to you. keep strong things can only get better. remember the good times you had no 1 can ever take them away but there over now. move on and live your life.
Posted 08/03/2010 22:13:50
Posted by emerald
RE: Cheryl to give Ash another chance?
Oh get a grip!! Honestly all these stories every 5mins she's divorcing him, she's not, they're seperated, they're not!! Cheryl married Ashley and has a long history with him that's not so easy to walk away from! Let them get their counselling and air their views, but please anyone hoping to set her up with Mr Wonderful straight away is a fool and needs to accept if she does end the marriage she's going to need time to grieve and heal inside not someone flashy to make her look good p.r wise (payback they call it hm?!)! It's up to the two of them in the end and anyone over 25 will tell you life isn't always black and white there are grey areas, all those making a fuss that he couldn't be in the x-factor audience - the man's a premiership footballer with a career and training of his own to do, he's not her arm candy - nor is she just his!! Let's all be realistic, he does have a point about her never being there for him, most celebs lives are the same if they're both busy people, you need a calendar and a pencil to mark in which day of the month you're free for a snog on hm?! That's also why so many celeb marriages fail lol!!
Posted 09/03/2010 02:04:45
Posted by gummy bear
RE: Cheryl to give Ash another chance?
oh you get a grip yes they both celebs with busy lifes but shes been away from him when hes football training and managed not to sleep with anyone because she loves and respects him so how can she be blamed for that. he thinks he sleep around blame her for it and claim to get her back whenever he clicks his fingers.no one deserves that celeb or not. wheres the respect. good luck to the pair of them theyl both need it. wish would go away and get on we it.....
Posted 09/03/2010 19:31:16
Posted by emerald
RE: Cheryl to give Ash another chance?
I'm not saying get a grip to the bloggers gummy bear but to the media and mags who feel Cheryl and Ashley's every 5 min countdown on their marriage is worthy of another news story!! Jeez, they did the same with Tiger Woods in a witch hunt trial in the media that lasted too long for his sufferinig wife and family - looks like she's moving back in too!!
Neither am I condoning his actions as I've already said previously, merely pointing out celeb marriages don't seem to bear any resemblence to any normal Joe Bloggs!! Hell, Mrs Bobbitt (who chopped off hubby's penis after he cheated) shows everyone reacts differently lol!! Mrs Bobbitt did time in prison and he got a talk show after penis reattachment lol?!!
Posted 10/03/2010 03:18:07