Posted by Miss Celtic
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
O........M.........G!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What is it with men and fame, does it just go to their pants??? OMG, i am absolutely SPEECHLESS!!!!!! OMG is about all I can say!!!!
Posted 11/03/2010 12:03:24
Posted by usual 1
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
It's not fame....It's the male species. Everybody cheats, it human nature, we are not built to be monogamous, unfortunately we dont mate for life. Its one of those horrible facts of life, like dying.....The effects are devastating but its a reality.
I am always shocked that people are still surprised when they hear about people being unfaithful.
Sorry Ladies - I know I'm gonna upset a few of you with my frank comments
Posted 11/03/2010 12:18:12
Posted by alib01
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
What a cop out 'usual1'. There are actually some people out there that are able to control themselves and have a bit of decency and respect and LOVE for eachother to NOT cheat . your not being frank, you are being an idiot!
Posted 11/03/2010 12:50:43
Posted by Miss Celtic
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
well said alib01!!!!!.....i think its cos of men like those celebrities it does bring down those men out there that are actually decent, and DO love their women and CAN commit.
i do think too tho...that its also what their women do in reaction to them doing this is a factor....if they show that basically they can get away with it then off course they gonna keep doing it. me and my man have a GREAT understanding of, dont do what you wouldnt like done back in return....my man would HATE me doing it to him and would never take me back, just as I would be the same other way about. If you cannot commit then dont be in that relationshiop for the long run!!! It wont do anyone any good.
Not ALL men are dirty sleezey scum bags that cannot commit their dicks to one woman tho (maybe 8/10 are haha)....so I do agree with you!!!x
Posted 11/03/2010 12:57:44
Posted by usual 1
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
I never suggested people who cheat dont love their partners !!!
You said "There are actually some people out there that are able to control themselves" surely this suggests they are able to resisit temptation. Is being tempted to do something any worse than actually doing it ? Surely thinking about cheating, thinking about someone else, spending time with someone else but not actually doing the deed is just as bad ?
Just because you dont like the way something sounds doesn't mean that it doesn't happen.
Posted 11/03/2010 13:02:46
Posted by Miss Celtic
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
....and i DO tend to agree that it IS more likely of these celebrities to cheat. They think their "status" ALLOWS them to have their cake and eat it....like its expected and part of their jobs to be able to behave in this way!!!
Just proves.....money and fame DONT bring you happiness.....only a big heed wi the brains fallen into their pants!!!!!!!!!x
Posted 11/03/2010 13:03:11
Posted by Kendra
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
He would have to borrow teeth from a dog if he was married to me!
What a loser!
Posted 11/03/2010 14:45:11
Posted by Paula0000
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
EEEEEWWWWW! Why would one woman want to have sex with Mark Owen, never mind ten!
Posted 11/03/2010 19:15:07
Posted by lovingmum
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
how big of him to come clean..........idiot
Posted 11/03/2010 19:15:57
Posted by emerald
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
OMG what is it this year, the celeb confessions of how many affairs I had and with who and how often?!!!
Why take it out on usual 1 though ladies she is right men are not monogamous creatures, not even Joe Bloggs in the street! Men have been scientifically proven to think about sex every 60 seconds, not only that they don't attach the same emotions to sex as women do!! Just because you don't know that someone is cheating doesn't mean they aren't that's where trust comes in, men can look at a woman and get turned on by her but that doesn't mean they're cheating on you it just means they're still alive and capable of getting turned on lol!!
Celebs, singers, sportsmen get it handed to them on a platter by thousands of women not because they're good looking or intelligent but mainly because they're famous!! Some of these people women have claimed to have had affairs with you just look at and want to barf lol!! Some of the most beautiful women stars have had young women coming onto their hubby right in front of them - it seems to be a shocking trend!
I disagree ususal 1 that everybody cheats, men can love their wives and kids and still get turned on by another woman, the difference is they don't all act on it!! Looking at another woman doesn't make him a cheat, does your looking at another male or a male model and licking your lips make you a cheat? If you spend time with a male other than your partner in a normal situation and you get turned on does that make you a cheat? Looking doesn't make you a cheat, thinking doesn't make you a cheat or you'd have to apply censorship to your braincells - what makes you a cheat is when you actually follow through on your fantasy and start an affair hm?!
lovingmum Yeah, they usually only come clean though when the other party is about to launch a tell all lol?!
Posted 12/03/2010 03:04:35
Posted by alib01
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
Of course we can all be tempted, we may all well think about other people, but we don't act on it- that's a very big difference. It's not just about doing ' the deed', - it's the betrayal, the disloyalty and the dishonesty that makes it so bad. When you are in a loving relationship, your shouldn't be tempted by another!
And it's condesending to suggest that we beleive that it doesn't happen- but that doesn't mean it's not wrong when it does.!!
Posted 12/03/2010 12:52:28
Posted by usual 1
RE: SHOCKER: Mark Owen's 10 affairs!!
I agree there is a difference but surely cheating cant be defined as simply as having sex. An emotional affair can be equally as damaging. Some people could get over it if their partner simply had a one night with a stranger but may find it harder to deal with it if they had not had sex but were spending time with someone, thinking about some else & forming an emotional attachment. Partnerships & cheating aren't simply about the physical things.
I know this is gonna anger you all but heyhoo:
I love Indian food but sometimes I fancy Chinese, doesn't mean I dont still love indian.
Posted 12/03/2010 13:34:32