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Pati Sanchez

'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

Tuesday 25 November 2008

Size 40 Patty Sanchez piles on weight to please her boyfriend- and says she's never felt sexier

Tucking into her breakfast, Patty Sanchez knows every mouthful will count when she has her weigh-in in a few hours’ time.
The 37 year old is eating the super-sized meal in a bid to reach her dream weight of 45st.

Patty’s partner, Sketty Jackson, 30, is a feeder who finds her flabby body a turn-on. And despite being told by doctors that it’s killing her, 43st Patty is happy to pile on the pounds to please him.

“I love my big body,” says Patty, who’s a ‘feedee’. “The more I weigh, the sexier I feel.”

Remarkably, 5ft 8 Patty – who now weighs more than two giant Pandas – was once slim, weighing just over 10st in her early 20s. But she says it was only to please her first husband Bob. “I was miserable. To keep my size 10 frame, I couldn’t eat the things I liked,” says Patty, who was a chubby child. Pati Sanchez

After breaking up with Bob, who she feels she married too young, she married second husband John. But when she was 29, their marriage broke down and the mum-of-four decided to give up dieting for good.

She says: “This time, I decided to find a man who loved my curves as much as I did.”

By the time Patty met Sketty at a party in June 2000, she weighed 25st. Sketty says: “I was blown away by Patty’s confidence. And despite having only dated skinny girls, I found myself attracted to her huge breasts.”

'I realised we were entering into a feeder/feedee relationship'

A few months later the couple moved in together and Sketty found that watching Patty eat was a turn-on. Patty says: “I noticed Sketty was getting aroused watching me eat. Afterwards he asked if he could rub my belly and we both found it really sexy and jumped into bed. I realised we were entering into a feeder/feedee relationship. I’d read about it on the internet and thought it sounded heavenly.”

Now Patty piles on up to 2st each month by gorging on five enormous meals a day. DJ Sketty says: “The larger Patty gets, the more beautiful she becomes.”

While Sketty – who’s 6ft 2 and weighs 15st 10lbs – regularly exercises and never snacks, Patty consumes at least 10,000 calories a day.

Sketty spends £300 a week on her food and cooks for her. Typically, Patty’s daily binge starts with two servings of chorizo, eggs and beans, followed by a meal every few hours, plus continual snacks.

'I hardly ever wear clothes'

Her favourite meals include steak and potatoes in a creamy sauce, tacos, and super-sized hamburgers with all the trimmings. She also loves buckets of popcorn and cookies washed down with fizzy drinks. When Patty gets hungry in the night, Sketty gets food supplies from a 24-hour store.

Her enormous appetite has made her body swell to grotesque proportions – she has a 70GG bust and wears size 40 clothes. But Patty, who works from home as the online manager of a website for big women, says she prefers to be naked.

“I hardly ever wear clothes at home,” she admits proudly. “But in the bedroom I dress up in sexy leopard-print lingerie, which I buy online. G-strings are best because they show off my big butt.”

'We've lost count of the number of beds we've had to replace'

Sketty regularly measures Patty’s body with a special 10ft measuring tape. Patty says: “Sketty started measuring me, so I knew what size clothes to buy, but it became a regular thing. When I got too big for normal scales we started going to a lorry weighing centre to check my progress.”

Each time Patty’s weight increases the couple, who are from LA, celebrate with a night of passion in their reinforced bed.

“We’ve lost count of the number of beds we’ve had to replace,” laughs Patty. “We’re both adventurous in bed. Our favourite position is doggy style – Sketty puts pillows under my stomach and we go for it.”

But being so big does have its limits. “I can’t be on top any more because I’d crush Sketty,” says Patty. “And I can’t get my legs over my head now, which I miss.”

And there are health risks too. Patty is morbidly obese, has high blood pressure and cholesterol, struggles to breathe and uses a motorised scooter to get about. “I can’t walk very far these days,” she says. She also suffers chest infections, heartburn and needs Sketty’s help showering daily to stave off fungal infections in her rolls of skin.

She had to give up her government job to work from home and only ever leaves the house to watch Sketty DJ at a “Big Girls” club night. But Patty doesn’t miss the outside world. She was often faced with cruel jibes from complete strangers. She says: “People would say: ‘Look at that cow,’ or ‘Lose some weight,’ and it hurt.”

Patty hasn’t seen a doctor for 18 months – after medics warned her she’ll die young if she doesn’t lose weight.
“I avoid doctors,” she says. “I know I could die, but I love food and want to make my man happy. Being big is my thing and I don’t care about the consequences.”

Worryingly, Sketty continues to feed Patty despite the health warnings. He says: “The thought of her dying scares me, but Patty assures me she’s fine.”

Patty even ignores lectures from her family, but says her children – Andy, 19, Scott, 18, Suzanne, 17, and 10-year-old Tom from her previous relationships – accept her size. She sees her children every second weekend and occasionally during the week.

“The arrangement for them to live with their dads suited everyone,” she explains. “But I’m very close to my kids.”
Patty and Sketty have agreed she’ll stop gaining weight when she reaches 45st.
“That’ll be the perfect size,” says Patty. And, naively, Sketty agrees. “I don’t want her to be unhealthily large – I adore her too much.”Pati Sanchez

Readers CommentsReaders Comments

Posted by ejsulsh

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

i'm lost for words

Posted 13/05/2008 14:15:45

Posted by lozza111

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

her fella is slowly killing her it not good for her health he should get done for neglect and if he likes big things then it should be him being 43st if he likes big.

Posted 13/05/2008 16:51:45

Posted by Atticus

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

"I don’t want her to be unhealthily large" ... what and that ISNT???

Posted 13/05/2008 21:04:22

Posted by kymmi-b-

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

disgusting, this is sick and weird.

i feel sorry for her kids, shes kidding herself is she thinks 45st is not unhealthly big! seriously wake up and take a good look at what your doing to yourself!

Posted 15/05/2008 09:43:31

Posted by charlesmarshall

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

I LOOOVEEE THE CAKE

Posted 15/05/2008 12:13:31

Posted by chrissym

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

This man is selfish and is using this ladies problem to control her. If she relies on him for the food she'll never change whilst she's with him. Think of her children, if they have kids of their own would she want them to fall into a relationship like that. How can they think that is healthy? The family wont have a mother if she carries on in her downward spiral. All I can say is at least she is working, and not scrounging off the government.

Posted 15/05/2008 18:50:14

Posted by keirah

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

control freak.

Posted 16/05/2008 19:21:45

Posted by keirah

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

she cant really be happy being that size.

Posted 16/05/2008 19:22:26

Posted by efi fini

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

i know ive got afew pounds extra, i do any thing to lose that, and i still feel really miserable and some time suicidal, i cant understand how can she be happy,because in deep down u know u rnot special and sexy,honestly i cann`t get it.

Posted 17/05/2008 18:23:19

Posted by mongychops

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

I’ve got a lovely bunch of coconuts
There they are all standing in a row
Big ones, small ones, some as big as your head
Give them a twist a flick of the wrist
That’s what the showman said

Posted 19/05/2008 11:43:55

Posted by mongychops

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

honestly tho, hand on heart would you? not sure i could

Posted 19/05/2008 12:15:24

Posted by l0r4d33

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

I WOULD, SHE IS GORGEOUS. I'VE ALWAYS FANCIED THE MICHELLIN KID. PURR.

Posted 20/05/2008 14:40:29

Posted by artemisd

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

This guy is seriously sick. He's the one with a problem. He's killing her for his own sexual gratification. What kind of job does he have that he can afford to spend £300 a week on food for her or is he making a living from selling this story? It makes you wonder what his motive is.

Posted 20/05/2008 14:40:39

Posted by 1cnorth

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

That is disgusting you need to sort your heads out if you think this is normal!!! If you really like her then you should be helping to make her smaller and healthier. I feel sorry for the kids cos soon they wont have a mum left!! How do you afford to eat £300 of food a week with only one of you working??? Just think how much more fun you both could have if she was smaller!

Posted 22/05/2008 15:03:23

Posted by Gilgamesh

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

I managed to get my wife up to 40st but she started smelling really bad and I couldn't stand to have sex with her any more

Posted 24/05/2008 12:00:17

Posted by csmith2012

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

I dread to think what will happen to this poor woman if this relationship ever ends? It's not easy to find a man who is so turned on by enormous folds of fatty flesh! Why is it not easy? Because it's disgusting and very, VERY wrong! Humans were not built to carry this much weight and it wont be long before her heart gives way! Then what? He finds his next victim? If this woman dies Sketty should be done for murder...

Posted 25/05/2008 11:32:00

Posted by littleelfqueen

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

why doesnt HE put on all that weight?!?!

Posted 25/05/2008 14:09:51

Posted by 1cnorth

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

Cos he is sick and needs 2 stop killing her and thnk about wta he is doing!!!

Posted 25/05/2008 14:11:57

Posted by xxxgemxxx

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

oh my god what the hell are u doing take a LONG look at body ur killing urself if he really loved u he wouldnt let u eat that much. have u got a lot of money and hes getting it when u die or sumthin coz thats was guna happen to u if u dnt get ur act 2gether

Posted 26/05/2008 00:24:31

Posted by Craig

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

..well..the way it reads is she is very happy and is not depressed about the condition, she has controlled her weight in previous relationships to please others to no avail while getting down, so do the maths, she is very brave/stupid to kick out the 'chocs' and sacrifice her own health to be happy, having a loving partner who is also her nurse,gopher and lover is damned convenient for her, even if he gets off on doing it.
Although I would have to admit, it's a little sad for the kids when their mum dies prematurely because of her failure to be realistic!

Posted 26/05/2008 11:16:55

Posted by sarie75

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

If he wants his girlfriend to die an early and undignified death then he's certainly going the right way about it. How can she be happy with hardly being able to walk anywhere because she gets breathless so as a result is housebound, not to mention not being able to wash herself. The woman needs to get some pride and realise that she has a family and there's a world outside her kitchen cupboards, and shame on him for slowly but surely killing the person he's supposed to love and care for. Control freak and doormat spring to mind.

Posted 28/05/2008 10:40:25

Posted by Emma Speight

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

All though it's good that Patty feels confident and sexy within herself, something a lot of women struggle with, I am truly shocked. Her boyfriend is encouraging her to gain weight, which is going to end up killing her. She needs to really think about what she's doing to herself, and her family. If she dies, how are her children going to cope without a mother? What she's doing may seem right to her, but she needs to think about the long term consequences, and realise that she is actually being quite selfish.

Emma Speight

Posted 28/05/2008 12:53:35

Posted by Paula1830

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

EEWWWW that is disgusting. GROSS!!!! How can someone get turned on by that MASSIVE LUMP OF FATTNESS!!! It is gross. i am a size 10-12 and even I am not happy with my weight. I still have love handles that I wish I could get rid of tomorrow. How she can look in he mirror (if she can move her fat ass that is) and think she looks good. And Sketty needs to get put away for neglect. Shelfish and control freak springs to mind. He knows deep down that she would not be able to cope without him so its his way of making sure they never split up so he always has her there. I bet you he is cheating on her NO DANGER!!!!!! Patty sort yourself out and get rid of that LOSER before it is too late!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 02/06/2008 11:21:01

Posted by Rachel-Anne

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

This is a form of abuse, it should be against the law and he should be locked up. That women could die, and then he should be up for murder or manslaughter.
Food is her drug, and he is like her dealer. Lock him away before he does the same to another woman.

Posted 11/06/2008 00:54:59

Posted by sJay

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

I cannot believe this! honestly!

I mean lets face it. Being the size of a house is going to come with healt complication even a shorter life expectancy so lets face it- she ain't going to be the last innocent woman he decides to grow!

What a social life she muct have.. staying in the house on her own whilst he goes out pleasing himself.
Just the way he likes it huh??

Posted 11/06/2008 16:18:18

Posted by chelle82

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

All im gona say is......MINGIN!!!!

Posted 24/06/2008 15:45:51

Posted by Happybeauty

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

You're all a bunch of size discriminating, closed minded beings to those of you who commented negativly on this. Health and beauty is at any size and you should really open you're minds. Not everyone agrees that skinny=beautiful and healthy because its a fact of life that health can not be judged by apperance and beauty comes in all sizes. Many men are attracted to women aorund her size and it's really not you're place to judge these men. Plus she is clearly happy and why shouldnt she be?? And you all should not be so assuming that she isnt happy, when she clearly states that she is happy and is beautiful and is forfilling her dream. I think she is stunning and inspiring and alot of men are jelous of her feeder partner. Each to their own but it's really no-ones buisness how certain individuals live their lives. Throw you're 'concern' and hatred elsewhere.

Posted 05/04/2009 05:32:50

Posted by Chub-Lover

RE: 'I'm 43st but my man's still feeding me up!'

Its a fact: There are those who adore chubbiness. I know, I am one of those who love to see big chubbies. What is going on here, is done with the consent of both people. He cannot force her, she has the choice to stop whenever she wants, and of course, if he thinks things are going too far then he can say so. Not everyone likes thin. OK, the content of this story, and the weights mentioned are approaching the extreme end of things, but these aren't the only couple at it. Feeding has been going on for a long time. I love watching chubbies eat. Stop being horrible to chubs...they're gorgeous! Those who dislike chubs have probably never hugged a chub, or been hugged by a chub. As goes the saying: "Once you've had fat, you don't go back." I know, because this is exactly what happened to me. I was once bear-hugged by a big chubby girl, and I absolutely loved it. I even begged her for another bear-hugging!! :-D The girl in this article has never been happier than what she is now. She has accepted the fact that she is a chub, and that she should not fight that, as doing so, can make someone miserable. All the time someone is trying to be someone else for everyone else, they will never get it right. She has finally decided to be herself, and this involves chubbiness. Lots of it. :-D Leave this couple to enjoy, appreciate and adore chubbiness. If I were to find a girlfriend that had not only accepted here size, but wanted to grow bigger for me, then I wouldn't have any objections, provided that we both agreed on an easily-achieved target-weight. I like watching chubs eat, and if she's doing that entirely of her own accord, who's to say that it's murder or manslaughter? It isn't. You anti-chub people are talking out of your backside. She wants to be a superchub, and he's right up for the idea. I wish then all the best.

*HUGS*

Posted 16/10/2009 16:44:42



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