Posted by thestar
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
Victoria Pilkington is dumb and naive and I hope Jack Moore dumped her as soon as she gets pregnant, leaving her with no child support and no future!
Posted 07/08/2008 19:28:34
Posted by sparkle eyes
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
thats a bit harsh!..but she does need to grow up before even considering bringing a child into the world...after all she is a child herself!
Posted 12/08/2008 09:13:58
Posted by saffy
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
What a stupid girl she'll live and learn when she grows up
Posted 12/08/2008 13:07:28
Posted by stacyjune
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
What a silly girl. A leopard never changes his spots. He already has 5 kids with 2 other women!!! What makes her think she'll be any different???? Sorry, but you need to go live you're life, you're young, you have plenty of time for love and babies. Good luck
Posted 14/08/2008 23:48:59
Posted by xx---zozo---xx
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
Shes extremely stupid.. she will waste her life if she has a baby and shes going to regret it dat she doesnt go to uni..!! Shes going to have no future..!
Posted 22/08/2008 00:45:21
Posted by mizzblondies
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
i think that she should have the freedom to choose whatever she does with her life although she she should not let people belittle her and just dont make the wrong decision and make sure you become what ever you want :)
Posted 25/08/2008 16:03:54
Posted by Rose-e
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
she can make her own decision
she loves this man and wants to have children
she is allowed, there is no law, she is over 16!
he might have changed
if he hasnt it doesnt matter, she can find someone else
she can still do her job
she is still young
she can applie for college and then wait 1 year before she starts
you can do that!
Posted 26/08/2008 11:11:11
Posted by mcball
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
oh my god, how naive is this girl?? but then she has an excuse, being 16 and still a child herself. She's being forced to grow up far too quickly and this 'man' should hve his goolies chopped off - 5 kids already at 26?! he should get a new hobby that doesn't involve ruining the lives of others - how is she going to feel in a few years time, with kids round her feet, no money, no nothing! yeah it is possible to go back to college and meet someone else but that is much harder to do when you have kids. I just hope she doesn't look back later in life and regret throwing away her teenage years. I wish her good luck as I sense she my need it.
Posted 28/08/2008 16:38:39
Posted by pink-kissess
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
silly silly girl, my ex ran off with a 15 yr old 6 years ago.... it lasted 1 year and she got bored of the 'older man' ...
shes given up her life, her future and her family and for what?
A WASTER.
good luck honey, when you open your eyes and see the waster for what he is then i hope its not too late to do something with your life, and for god sake, DONT HAVE ANY KIDS TO THIS THING
Posted 02/09/2008 08:21:05
Posted by Alfiemoomoo
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
This man is obviousely her first love and nothing or nobody will change her mind. This relationship will have to run it's course before this poor girl realises what a big mistake she's made. Her parents are understandably upset, but I'm sure they will still be there to pick up the pieces. It's not her fault that she's fallen for this guy, I only hope she sees sence before it's too late.
Posted 02/09/2008 16:25:34
Posted by JENLEIGH1
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
From someone who has been in a SLIGHTLY similar situation, she is making the wrong decision and hope she realises before she has a baby.
He might make her happy but the age difference does make a difference, and having everyone against you, especially parents makes it so much harder.
If he was the mature he wouldnt have let her run away from home, he let her choose him over her parents, not a good move and she will see that one day, im so glad i didnt make the mistake of having a baby when i was in the situation.
Posted 26/09/2008 16:43:51
Posted by mistery
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
Lets think of the way things are right now, This man has 5 children, 5 and with that come alot of financial strain and emotinal and physical work and effort. If he is the great dad hes being made up to be that should mean hes having regular contact with all 5 children so this means say every sat- sun he has to be a father, cook, clean, love, and be there for those kids, let them sleep over and financial support all 5. Now the girl is 16 years old, have you considered the fact you already have to be a step mum when kids come over, to 5 children, meaning you will have to cook 5 childrens breakfast, lunch, dinner, plus lovely daddies whos on the playstation, like a kid himself..meaning 2 adult dishes, those children needs space to play, activities to do, and it will be physically draining as a 16 year old as well as mentally hard as you have no experience, you are a kid, now my question is why would you want to have two more children when you already step mum to his five, do you two not think you should focus on the ones you have, or have you forgotten them and thought youd just live the happy life of four cutting out all the other kids hes has..??cos realisticly you will if u want two have 7 kids to care for at the weekends, to cook 7 kids breakfasts, lunches and dinners and also two adults..how will you cope with this, house cleaning, responsibility, coz your already a step mum, or does your partner, the man thats so great not actually see the kids much, is it just you two and he orders you the takeaway dinners and spoils just you, forgetting his kids need him too..?cos a man says alot of things when you have his kids in your tummy, he aint gotta do anything but once thats bubba lying on the bed screaming guess who goes back on every word and treats you like the naive 16 year old he always knew you was 9 months ago, dont let him gain more control over you and emotionally mess your head, if your realtionships so perfect why can you not put your study first
Posted 09/10/2008 17:29:39
Posted by cindylloyd.
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
oh my god why would someone do that it is just stupid giving up a life where you will get somewhere for a 26-year-old man immature or what. why? thats my question! what a silly silly GIRL!
Posted 15/10/2008 10:37:57
Posted by haileemou
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
If he was a real ‘MAN!” he would have left her alone and not venture anywhere near her! I feel for the girl as she's young and naive, at that age you have no life experience, and unfortunately she will learn the hard way!
Posted 21/10/2008 14:29:49
Posted by soph113
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
let her learn from her own mistakes
sum1 at her age will never be told
shes yung & naive
probably thinks shees older than what she is alreddy
and having an older man makes her feel even more like this
babies aren't the answer tho but the more
she gets hassle for this the more she will want to prove something
Posted 27/10/2008 16:52:48
Posted by PerrinA
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
I don't really think anyone should call this girl stupid...she's obviously in love and that's something that can happen to anyone at anytime...life doesn't always turned out the way you planned...I really hope everything works out for her...but if it doesn't I hope she'll be able to take this as experience and look to the future!! good luck Victoria...the only thing I'd suggest is...if you haven't got a very good relationship with your parents i'd say to try and get a good relationship because they really do only want the best for you!! Good luck :-)
Posted 06/11/2008 23:10:13
Posted by boodle89
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
open your eyes sweetie ...... dear o dear what is this world coming too now a days . i think he doesnt quite look all there!!!!
Posted 09/11/2008 18:26:38
Posted by onlinebabe
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
despite most of the comments against their relationship- it wont change a thing as she seems determined and if the parents she loves couldnt turn her head then strangers certainly wont
however she needs to look at the situation -the sacrafices she has given up for this man - what apart from love and sex has he contributed towards this relationship..
if he is genuine - why did he not encourage her to say on and further her education and choice of career where they can both input something into the relationship as oposed to her staying at home and being a mum- the world is her oyster and while the opportunuinties are there she should take it as nothing is set in stone and that relationship could end as quickly as it started
Posted 02/01/2009 13:30:52
Posted by miss sarah
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
get a life
and stop being stupied
about running away with a 26 year old
orrr no u low life stupied cow ur parentes must be worried
ha
Posted 07/01/2009 14:15:23
Posted by weegingernut
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
I feel sorry for this young girl. She's to young to really know what's she getting herself into. I really hope she doesn't have a baby with the guy as she would be forever tied to him. I hope she see's sense soon! As for the guy, well he needs to stop chasing such nieve young girls!
Posted 24/03/2009 16:24:05
Posted by Ashlee
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
SICK,,,Darlin He Is Sick,,, It Makes Me Sick Him Knowing You Was Still At School,,,If He Was Attracted To You At That Age Emagine All The Other Little Girls In Danger By Him,,, I Hope You Dont Have Children With This Sick Man And You Come To Your Sences. He Needs To Be Locked Away Sweetie Sorry To Say.
Posted 31/03/2009 12:11:06
Posted by Ashlee
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
SICK,,,Darlin He Is Sick,,, It Makes Me Sick Him Knowing You Was Still At School,,,If He Was Attracted To You At That Age Emagine All The Other Little Girls In Danger By Him,,, I Hope You Dont Have Children With This Sick Man And You Come To Your Sences. He Needs To Be Locked Away Sweetie Sorry To Say.
Posted 31/03/2009 12:15:38
Posted by Sara2009
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
oh my god!! why are you givin up your life so quickly. your only 16. well if i was you then i would get my grades and get a good job for wen i have children, you cant dependon the dad all of the time, i meen what if you split up with him?? where is the food gonna come from then? your such a stupid girl just imagine at 18 you could go out clubbin with all your mates instead of settling down with kids. if you ask me then you should get ur grades mate
saraa..x
Posted 03/04/2009 10:18:28
Posted by KatieNorton09
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
I know this girl and shes a horrible person.. This man is not her first love, she stole my boyfriend and threatened me down the phone.. She doesnt care about anyone but herself.. she was missing for monthes and didnt tell anyone where she was.. in the end, she was found 10 minutes down the road! her parents were going through hell and in the papers it said that her little sister was getting really upset about it all! She given up everything for this bloke.. she mentions her hair straighteners, everytime i saw her she had dead straight hair and a face covered in make-up and now look at her, shes a mess! On a social network site i saw a comment her mate had left her saying.. so happy i saw you last night after monthes of nothing, whats up with you though, you looked a mess and smelt like a tramp! She really needs to sort her life out and just to let you all know.. shes had a little girl now
Posted 02/10/2009 11:17:55
Posted by shorty94
RE: "I want babies with my older lover"
i persoanlly think you are stupid you should live your life before having kids and this men is no good for you. he is unemployed and should be encouarging you to go to school and do well in your life. you are a stupid girl because your family and friends will be missing you
Posted 11/02/2010 10:49:51