Posted by clarabella
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
Good on him!
Any parent of children would be in despare if you saw your ex acting the way she did,it was disgusting.
He obviously is concerned for his childrens wellfare,and rightly so.
Even if it was as she said 'medication' that made her act that way,then she isn't in any fit state to look after herself nevermind the kids.
She even said in the interview,Molly looks after me!
For gods sake they are children,no child should be looking after their parent,Kerry hasn't done herself any favours.
And as for that dickhead of a husband of her's,i think he's behind alot of Kerrys troubles,he's a twat,and he's been using her from day one!
No one likes to see kids taken away from their mothers,but when your kids lifes may be in danger,then sometimes its better to be cruel to be kind.
And when Kerrys got herself better then,that would be the time to get them back.
When a family breaks up,more times than not the kids stay with the mums,but this isn't always the best,and Kerry hasn't done herself any favours either with her mtv show!
Sorry but im backing Brian on this one!
Posted 28/10/2008 09:45:28
Posted by sara atkinson
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
I understand his fears, but as he's barely seen the ids in the last couple of years I don't think he has any right to come ad drag them away from their Mum and their lives - school and friends etc are very important to kids. He's a selfish pig and whilst I agree Kerry needs help, I don't think taking her kids away will be productive for either her or them.
Posted 28/10/2008 12:34:07
Posted by Alison Kerr
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
I feel really sorry for all of Kerry's kids not just Molly & Lily Sue. If it was the medication that caused Kerry to be slurring her words and behaving strangely surely she should be going back to her doctor or he should be contacting her to get it changed. I think its time she dumped that "waster" that she is married to as he is treating her like a cash cow and for a long time she has been very vulnerable and probably feels the only way to keep him is to spend spend spend which is right up his street. My advise to Kerry is to stop believing other people and start believing in herself, she is so pretty and could do so much better for herself and her kids hopefully you'll realise that you don't need a man in tow.
Posted 28/10/2008 12:34:37
Posted by pudding1
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
GOOD LUCK BRIAN-ICELAND SHOULD SACK THIS PITIFUL EXCUSE OF A GOOD MOTHER...
Posted 28/10/2008 12:35:34
Posted by SLB
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
If she wasn't famous her kids would have been removed ages ago. I dont blame Brian I worry about those kids and what they see and hear in that house, its not fair on them. Sounds to me like Kerry needs to get away from that dick head of a husband and then she can get herself sorted out.
Posted 28/10/2008 12:44:19
Posted by piphow
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
In my opinion, Kerry's life started to downfall when she split from Brian McFadden. Any mother that turns to drugs, in whatever circumstance, should not be looking after her children. Kerry's life seems to be freefalling at an alarming rate and this appears to have started when she met Mark Croft. When a couple splits up, as Brian and Kerry did, it is so hard but him moving to the other side of the world and only seeing his children from time to time, is not the answer either. If Kerry is unable, emotionally and physically to look after four children, then it is in their best interests for a court/judge to decide who is the better parent. If that is Brian then he shouldn't take their children to the other side of the world to live with him. He should move closer to Kerry and put his children before Delta Goodrem. The children did not ask to be born and both parents owe it to their children to put them first.
Posted 28/10/2008 12:49:00
Posted by jodie williams
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
What sort of husband would let there wife go on live tv in that state!!!!! open your eyes girl he is no good for you all her bad publicity started when she met him!!!!!!!!! I think brian is right to be concerened for his children living with her in that state and having that prick as a step father i can see why he wants custody .
anyways i think its a real shame she had a great career and life ahead of her before getting involved with him .... hope she gets better soon but i am also backing brain on this one....
Posted 28/10/2008 12:49:50
Posted by Natasha Howarth
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
I think Brian is right to come back and find out whats happening with his children, but this is a man that moved to the other side of the world to be with another women, he didn't seem to bother that much then, so lets face it theres no best father awards there either. I think it is easy to be judge and jury and say Kerry is a disgrace, an unfit mother, but i think Kerry is in desperate need of help and support. She never seemed to get over the pain of Brian leaving and seemed to take a downwards spiral from there, then she met Mark, not exactly the loving and supporting husband she needs, she was very vulnrable when she met himand i think this worked towards his advantage. I don't think that taking Kerrys custody for the children away from her would be the best outcome for her or her children, but she does need time to get herself well and not subject her children to anymore. I think that all parties involved in this need to tread very carefully, lets not forget the innocent children in all of this.
Posted 28/10/2008 13:18:15
Posted by cassandra
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
Do your best Brian,your girls are too precious to let Kerry mess their lives up,she has done a good enough job of messing her own up.
Posted 28/10/2008 13:22:44
Posted by badgergirl31
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
Brian is hypocritical and has caused a lot of this himself. Everyone makes mistakes in life but he now has the opportunity to put his children first and to do this he should be helping Kerry so that she is in a position to care for her children. Taking them away will cause heartbreak to the children and the best outcome for them is to have regular contact with both parents. Kerry needs to get help - I used to think she was a good role model but since she has been apart from Brian her life has gone to pieces. She clearly has no-one in her life who wants the best for her and sadly she does not think enough of herself to want to get better. I really hope that somehow she manages to turn her life around and that of her children and to realise that until she looks after herself there is no way she can look after her childre.
Posted 28/10/2008 14:21:41
Posted by vicki sutton
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
I think kerry should get rid of that idiot of an husband, he knew fulwell that kerry should not of gone on tv, i think he's doing all this purposley to bring the girl down!!! It was so clear that she ad been drinking or on something but if she's not admitting it to herself she won't get any help for it!!
Brian should have full custody of those girls kerry is in no fit state to take care of them and neither is the idiot of a step father!! Maybe brian taking the girls away will make kerry see sense that she needs help to get the children back!!! I just feel sorry for the other 2 children who's goin to look after them when their mothers a alcoholic/druggy and their dad's a money grabbing git!!!!!! The quicker kerry realises what a complete loser he is the better!!
Posted 28/10/2008 14:29:50
Posted by vicki sutton
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
I think kerry should get rid of that idiot of an husband, he knew fulwell that kerry should not of gone on tv, i think he's doing all this purposley to bring the girl down!!! It was so clear that she ad been drinking or on something but if she's not admitting it to herself she won't get any help for it!!
Brian should have full custody of those girls kerry is in no fit state to take care of them and neither is the idiot of a step father!! Maybe brian taking the girls away will make kerry see sense that she needs help to get the children back!!! I just feel sorry for the other 2 children who's goin to look after them when their mothers a alcoholic/druggy and their dad's a money grabbing git!!!!!! The quicker kerry realises what a complete loser he is the better!!
Posted 28/10/2008 14:29:53
Posted by jmb411
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
She's going to lose everything and its down to that creep she married he has total control of her and he's slowly destroying her - she'll end of with just his two kids living on benefits in a council house - she'll turn into her mother if she's not careful. Get rid of him he doesn't love you he's too much in love with the money (what's left of it).
Posted 28/10/2008 14:31:45
Posted by jmb411
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
She's going to lose everything and its down to that creep she married he has total control of her and he's slowly destroying her - she'll end of with just his two kids living on benefits in a council house - she'll turn into her mother if she's not careful. Get rid of him he doesn't love you he's too much in love with the money (what's left of it).
Posted 28/10/2008 14:46:36
Posted by happydays08
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
How she won, Best mum of the year award - is totally beyond me. She has been a headcase for years. Time to sort yourself out before its really to late, and you loose, the most precious gift you have - your children. GET A GRIP. Kick the greedy git out, sell the cars, and sort yourself out, with out him your on a winner, if you stay with him, your just gonna spiral out of control.
Posted 28/10/2008 15:00:11
Posted by Claire Stansfield
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
In a way I feel sorry for Kerry, she is insecure, vunerable and has not got the greatest self esteem. That lowlife that calls himself her husband should take a walk out of her life. (Or would do if he was a real man and not some free loader.) I know a few people that suffer from Bipolar Disorder and yes while it is dibiltating at the best of times when on a low, the drugs do not have that sort of effect unless mixed with alcohol. I do not think that it is right for Brian to fly back to GB and think that he is entitled to custody of the 2 girls as he hasn't really got a father daughter relationship with them. He needs to have residency of the girls with the proviso that Kerry gets to see them on a regular basis without that lowlife in tow. My only question in this sad sorry state of affairs is this, If Brian comes over here and gains residency of the girls what will happen to the 2 children left at home with a mother who can't look after herself and a father that wants to play on his X box all day?
Posted 28/10/2008 15:07:02
Posted by eazbee1
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
Poor kerry is a tickin time bomb waiting to go off please kerry get a grip if not for yourself but for your four children who love you. Get rid of that excuse for a man mark croft who is leach and a no mark and be that fun lovin queen of the jungle.xx
Posted 28/10/2008 15:17:37
Posted by janet hartland
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
From what i have read, for most of the time since he left kerry (lets be homest for his mistress) he has lived on the other side of the world, and not seen much of his two girls. He is very quick to run kerry down and act as if he isn't to blame for any of this, but his solo career is a flop, he lied about what money he had and shortchanged kerry in the divorce. She has tried and tried to get her life back on track but then that nasty piece of work Mark crawled out from under his stone and abused her fame, her money and most of all her vulnerability. Kerry just wants someone to love her for who she is. She had a miserable childhood. She could be a great mum with some proper love and decent people around her. As for Brian if he was to win custody i bet his mum would be left looking after the girls 95% of the time. its very rare you ever see any pictures of him and Delta with the girls.
I cannot get over the speed in which people jump to judge on a 5 minute tv appearance.
Posted 28/10/2008 19:40:01
Posted by JANE OWEN
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
I'm really fed up with people slagging this girl off!! With everything that has happened to this girl in her life (not all off her own doing) is it any wonder she has mental health problems? Where Britney Spears had her father to sort out her life Kerry has NOBODY in that respect who can take control and help her sort her life out. The people who called themselves her friends were quick to start slagging her off - some friends eh? Celebrity or not if those children were at risk Social Services would have removed them a long time ago.
As for Brian, what a waste of space!! Like what has been said already if he cares that much about his kids he wouldn't be living half way around the world from them. It just proves he thinks more of Delta than his kids which is what Kerry has been slagged off for doing with Mark! As for Kerry saying "Molly looks after me" that could mean anything! I have chronic Arthritis and my kids have "looked after me" at times should someone call Social Services on me or for that matter what about all the child carers that there are in the country should they all be removed from their homes??!!??
With regard to Louis Walsh and Simon Cowell I think they should stick to what they do best and not get involved unless they have first hand knowledge of both households!
Posted 28/10/2008 22:38:08
Posted by Patricua Lyndsey
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
Good luck Brian . I hope you get the 2 little girls. I don't know why social services are not not paying Ms Katona a visit.
Posted 29/10/2008 01:01:44
Posted by naomi.brown89
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
She's got a nanny anyway so she doesn't even look after her kids permanently. Brian only seems to bother when there's something in it for him. And Kerry can make her own mind up about tv appearences and how to bring her children up. It's not Mark's fault! I don't see how taking the girls away from their mother is better than leaving them there. Because they're prob settled and seemed to love their nanny on 'Crazy in Love'.
Posted 29/10/2008 09:27:07
Posted by pepper50
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
Kerry's troubles began when Brian left her, her biggest problem then was loving him too much, many people might scoff at this but you really have to have been there to know how vulnerable she was, Brian's attitude at the time was to put as much distance as he could between himself, Kerry and his girls, to come back in to their lives now and try to be the father he should have been is disastrous, he will do far more harm than good if he tries to take the girls away from the mother they love, nanny or no. In fact the nanny is a good reason to leave the children, unless Brian is going for custody of her as well!
His conduct hasn't been that savoury in the past so the halo isn't a shining as all that, as for Louis Walsh, well we all know how he needs the publicity and my guess is that is the real reason for the sudden onset of parental concern!
Posted 29/10/2008 09:45:25
Posted by ferraribabe1964
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
Sorry, whilst i realise that the welfare of the children must come first unless you know Kerry personally i cant see how any of you can comment on her and her family.Yes her speech was slurred but only she knows the real reason for it and whilst it was upsetting to see only she knows what exactly is going on in her life.Sometimes things do get hyped up by the media so personally i think people should back off and worry about their own lives.
Posted 29/10/2008 18:51:40
Posted by elyssa
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
good luck brian, but where have you been for the past 2 years??? hope your going to rescue your girls this time instead of just threatening to do it. AGAIN
Posted 30/10/2008 18:51:57
Posted by janetharbron
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
GO FOR IT BRIAN!! those kids deserve to be with a parent that cares for more than just themself and their partner!! i just feel sorry for the other two kids cos their stuck with them!!
Posted 31/10/2008 14:58:14
Posted by Nicola Sharp
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
She is so insecure and craving attention, i think she uses drugs or drink to numb out the pain of losing brian to delta all those years ago and she is still bitter. She trully needs help before something devastating happens to her, she isnt a robot and you can only take so much of people putting you down all the time. She must get Mark out of her life because he is so bad for her, she buys him everything to keep him happy so he will stay with her.
Nikishar
Posted 31/10/2008 15:21:59
Posted by Judith Wylde
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
People seperate everyday and children are quite often forgotten about except for when a parent wants to earn brownie points, in this case Brian Mcfadden, whilst he walked away from his girls to embarked on a new love affair and flagging, going nowhere career, Kerry with all her problems has at least always been their for her children, even if not in a way most of think is right, not Brian. Now he wants to remove the children from all thats familiar, if he is a better parent he will move close to the childrens current environment to continue with there stability.
Judy
Posted 03/11/2008 16:36:57
Posted by Alexis
RE: Brian to fight Kerry for kids
i dont think brian deserves his kids back and kerry is a gud mother no matter what her problems are, he wasnt thinking of his kids when he upt and left her for the high life in ozz, its so selfish of him going so far away from his kids and this buisiness of wanting them is a joke they will prob be pauned off to family in ireland . i dont care what u say about her she is a gud mother and if she wasnt dont worrie those kids would be take away long agoe
Posted 12/11/2008 13:58:08