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Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Monday 26 January 2009

When mum-of-two esther Adams landed work as a Victoria Beckham lookalike, she thought it would be a fun job. She was soon earning up to £500 a time for imitating the Spice Girl’s famous pout and attending glitzy parties.

But months later, when news of Esther’s new career spread through her hometown of Clacton-on-Sea, Essex, locals started abusing her in the street, calling her “Imposhter.” She was accused of having an eating disorder, her children Lewis, now 13, and Katie, 11, were teased and taunted at school, and she had a lit cigarette thrown at her.

But Esther is determined not to let the bullies force her to quit.

“When you’ve got young children, it’s hard to find a job with fairly flexible hours and good money,” she says. “So, despite the abuse I’ve suffered, I’ve got no plans to stop.”

Esther, 31, first looked into becoming a Victoria Beckham lookalike four years ago, when she was working as a dancer in a nightclub.
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She says: “Customers started telling me how much I looked like Posh, and that I should become a lookalike. At the time, I was a single mum and struggling financially, so I contacted some agents and was soon being booked to open clubs and appear in magazines. I could earn between £18,000 and £20,000 a year doing a few hours’ work a month.”

It wasn’t until two years later that things soured. “In June 2006, I appeared in my local paper, opening a charity dance in Clacton,” says Esther. “The next day, I found out dozens of readers had posted spiteful comments about me on the newspaper’s website. They read: ‘Who does she think she is?’ and ‘She’s a joker! She’s a wannabe!’

Understandably, Esther was hurt. “To me, it’s just a job – a way to earn money to raise my children,” she says. “I wouldn’t want to be famous, and I don’t think I’m better than anyone else.”

Esther was also devastated by nasty digs about her naturally slim size 8 figure.

“People accused me of having an eating disorder,” she says. “One person wrote:
‘I knew she was starving herself to look like Posh, how sad. Does she not realise she looks hideous?’”

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In fact, Esther, who weighs 9st and is 5ft 5 tall, eats a healthy, balanced diet and says she wouldn’t dream of following a faddy diet – unlike Posh, who is famed for her bizarre eating habits.


“When I read the comments, I shook with anger,” Esther recalls.

But the abuse soon got worse. “People started shouting at me in the street,” she says. “I felt hurt and humiliated, but I just ignored them. My friends were horrified when I told them about the grief I was getting over my job, but they encouraged me to stick at it.”

Esther says she would wear dresses and high heels when she was in “Posh” mode, but when she wasn’t working, she made sure she dressed down in a tracksuit in an effort not to be noticed. 

“The abuse died down for a bit, and I hoped it was over,” she says.

But when Esther did a photo shoot in the town in July 2007 for the local paper, the hostility resurfaced.

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She says: “I was nervous, but I couldn’t afford to turn the work down. I didn’t have another job. I was dressed up like Posh and driven through town in a convertible.

“At first, I think people really thought I was Posh, but when they realised it was just me, they started shouting: ‘Imposhter! Who do you think you are?’ One woman threw a lit cigarette at me and it bounced off my jacket.”

Esther says it’s only women who seem to be offended by her work as a lookalike. Her husband Brett, 29, a personal trainer who she met three years ago, doesn’t object to her job, but Esther points out that he doesn’t think she looks like Posh.

“He says he thinks I’m prettier,” she laughs. “I don’t think so, though – in fact, I don’t think I look much like Posh either.

“Brett knows I get abuse from local people, but he doesn’t let it wind him up.”

At the end of 2007, things took a more worrying turn when her children, Lewis and Katie, started to suffer.

“One day, Lewis came home from school sulking and angry,” Esther says sadly.

“Other kids had called him Brooklyn [the name of Victoria Beckham’s eldest son] and labelled him ‘Imposhter’s son.’

“Katie then confessed that she was being teased. Her classmates were saying to her that I had to be thick to be a lookalike.”

Then Lewis got into a fight at school. “It was with a lad who was slagging me off,”

Esther says. “His face was cut and bruised. I don’t condone fighting, but I knew he’d just been sticking up for his mum.

“I felt so guilty that my job was causing so much trouble, but the children urged me not to quit – they said that if I gave it up, it meant the bullies had won.”

Esther hasn’t yet confronted the people who’ve hurled abuse at her, as she doesn’t want to antagonise them.

She adds: “I’ve been tempted to call my agents and resign, but at the end of the day it’s such a great job. I only have to do a couple of days’ work to earn what someone else might earn in a month, and I can spend the rest of my time with Lewis and Katie.

“The people who’ve had a go at me don’t even know me,” adds Esther. “I think most of the insults are due to jealousy. As my children keep telling me, we can’t let them win.”

By Louisa Gregson

Posted by clarabella

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Yes i agree,its all down to jealousy!
These morons that hurl abuse at Esther are jealous of the fact she can earn alot of money for just looking and dressing like Posh!
Your not telling me if they were offerd lots of money to dress up as someone they'd turn it down!
Mind you,these muppets probably have never done a days work in their life!
If i was Esther id phone the police everytime someone abused me,they cant get away with it,its not like she's hurting anyone,and atleast she's working and not sponging the system.
And id complain to the school aswell,the kids that are bulling her kids are obviously hearing things at home from their parents,im glad Lewis stook up for his mum,you have to stand up to bullies!
Dont resign over those jealous idiots Esther,hold your head high and keep doing the job you love,id love to do a job and get paid loads just for looking like someone!
Good luck to you,hold yor head high,and dont let the jealous morons get to you,your better than them.

Posted 27/01/2009 09:15:42

Posted by racheal

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

the people who are hurlin abuse at her are jealous! becaase it's just women, theyre jealous that theyr enot as pretty as her & that they have to work harder than her to earn what she earns. why dont thye get mad at the real posh ey? her children are right, she needs to keep doin this job, if she doesnt thenthe bullies will think they have won. if she enjoys this job, she shouldnt stop.

well done for not backin down. proud of you

Posted 27/01/2009 09:19:08

Posted by alisha98

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

yer dont let jelousy get in your way yer ur beutiful and they dont like the fact that you are better than them keep it up and smile:) xx good luck xx

Posted 27/01/2009 10:03:46

Posted by bobo99

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

I agree that the nastier abuse is probably down to jealousy but being a "posh impersonator" you have to expect a bit of teasing as its a tongue-in-cheek job anyway. I do feel sorry for the kids though.
Good luck to her though - if i could make all that money for as little effort i certainly wouldn't turn it down

Posted 27/01/2009 12:26:47

Posted by jmb411

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

It's a free country and you can do what you like as long as it's legal of course. Have a word with the school if the bullying continues because these bullies are probably bullying other kids not just yours. If you're earning a decent living at it and your kids are happy then it's no-one's business what you do - good luck to you.

Posted 27/01/2009 14:14:31

Posted by x megan louise x

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

omg u look well like er dont listen to themm chickk she is amazin n i would. love to look like ether of yooh dont let the bullies win nd well dun to ur son for standing up for yooh gud look ly xx

Posted 27/01/2009 17:18:59

Posted by x megan louise x

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

btw i am 14 so mii opion bout ur son is possibly differnt to other older ppl xx

Posted 27/01/2009 17:20:50

Posted by emma amanda gibson

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Well done and if i looked like posh i would do it as well at least you are not sat at home doing nothing you are earning your own money and most of the people that make fun of you probably dont even have a job they are just jealousy try to ignore the bullies as they have nothing better to do and by ignoring them you are winning keep your head held high as most of us out there that do have brains are right by your side you go girl.xx

Posted 27/01/2009 20:20:14

Posted by Gaby

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Have these people got nothing better going on in their lives. How sad to bully an innocent person like this. It's just pure jealousy. I bet the bullies are fat, ugly people.

Posted 28/01/2009 11:38:19

Posted by Danni B

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Am I missing something here? I am not against lookalikes as its good work if you can get it , but this lady DOES NOT look like Posh!!!!

Posted 28/01/2009 12:24:47

Posted by racheal

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

are you kiddin me? she does in that top picture!

Posted 28/01/2009 12:28:35

Posted by Danni B

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1128592/The-Imposhter-Why-pretending-Posh-picnic-lookalike-harassed-street.html

No not kiddin you! Go to this link where the pictures are not done so far away!!!!!! I though the top one looked good till i saw it close up!!!!

I have seen posh lookalikes before and they are good - but not this.

Posted 28/01/2009 13:09:03

Posted by racheal

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

oh yeah! haaha sorry. she doesnt look thta much like her, especially in that red dress! haha

Posted 28/01/2009 13:13:27

Posted by dawnest

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Stop whining darling! If you are going to put your head above the parapet, then you must expect to have the bullets aimed at you. Enjoy the moment of notoriety; stockpile the earnings and teach your children to use humour as a way of coping with the "bullying". If your son is called "Brooklyn, the imposhter's son" then teach him to say "yeah! arent I lucky to have such a famous mum". Sounds to me like you are taking the jibes a bit too personally so coat yourself in a thick skin or get out of the business because there is no place in quasi-show business for sensitive cry babies.

Posted 28/01/2009 14:46:23

Posted by sarie75

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

The top picture on this page IS Posh, the pic below isn't. Got absolutely nothing against lookalikes, but this lady's more look-nothing-like than lookalike. I saw the pics in closer mag and nearly fell off my chair, how can she get paid so much money for looking nothing like Posh? and that's not me being jealous, just curious.

Posted 30/01/2009 23:58:18

Posted by sparkle eyes

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

NO ..the top pic isnt posh!!! numpty!!!... the top pic is esther then its posh hahahaha!!


God

Posted 31/01/2009 09:33:43

Posted by Danni B

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

THE TOP PIC IS POSH!!!! ITS BEEN CHANGED NUMPTY!!!!!!

Posted 31/01/2009 15:55:06

Posted by clarabella

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Have to agree with sparkle eyes,the top picture on this feature is actually Esther! Youv'e only got to look at the legs and the belly button! : )

Posted 31/01/2009 16:05:48

Posted by sparkle eyes

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Top pic isnt posh!!!.....yes clarabella ur right and more so...look at her face!! Danni B and sarie 75 have just confirmed how much she must look like Posh hahahahahaa!!

pair of numpties!! :D

Posted 31/01/2009 16:27:43

Posted by clarabella

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

: ) How can anyone say the top pic IS posh?!
Not being horrible to Esther but Posh's pics are airbrushed,the top pic isn't! You can see Esthers viens in her legs in the top pic! Posh wouldn't allow a picture like that to get in a mag!! And if you look at the bra straps there different! There two completely different pic's of two completely different people!
Esther top,Posh bottom!

Posted 31/01/2009 17:48:49

Posted by Tina09

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

i think esther looks great, and who better to copy, than posh! i love posh, she is quite skinny but she wears it well and doesnt look ill or anything!
shes obviously not going to look identicle to posh but theyre are similarities!
x

Posted 01/02/2009 21:22:53

Posted by onlinebabe

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

i do think she looks like posh HENCE WHY SHE GOT THE JOB

you know what she cant live for other people continue to make your money girl and be as sucessful as you can THATS THE BEST REVENGE YOU CAN HAVE ON YOUR ENEMIES AND HATERS OUT THERE

Posted 04/02/2009 01:40:46

Posted by celebi

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

It's a great job, and u can spend more time with your kids, so try not to let a few idiots bully you out of it.

Posted 11/02/2009 23:23:02

Posted by miss sarah

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

u dont look much
like her but well done
just keep u and ur family
happy now it has nuffin
2 do wiv anybody else so just ignore them all
x

Posted 13/02/2009 10:22:00

Posted by miss sarah

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

u dont look much
like her but well done
just keep u and ur family
happy now it has nuffin
2 do wiv anybody else so just ignore them all
x

Posted 13/02/2009 10:22:02

Posted by alisha98

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

wats with the dont look like her thing.............. come on people she is earning a living out of this she obviously looks like her if she gets paid for looking like her and she actually does from a distance
yer you look great kepp up the good workx

Posted 16/03/2009 12:07:44

Posted by rochelle-x

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

she definitly doesnt look like posh to me like. nothing like her apart from the dark hair.
but no need for people to bully her like, no need for it.

Posted 05/04/2009 17:57:36

Posted by leanne xx

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

u go girl take no notice of the bullies they r jus jealous of u .ur bootyfull the way u are jus keep ur chin up n smile xx

Posted 05/04/2009 22:04:41

Posted by ****

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

i dont think u look like her
your hubbys right you are prettier
but you know what you can treat your kids the way them bitches cant so you go girl and best of luck

Posted 21/04/2009 15:00:51

Posted by sJay

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

*Oh my god!!*
I'm sat at work eating oranges! nearly spat the bloody thing out when i saw the close up on the web link above!!


She does not look anything like posh! I can't believe it.. I'm not saying she's not attractive but my gooodddd!!!!!!

And I'm deffo not jealous either!!

Posted 21/05/2009 09:57:43

Posted by CiaraStapley

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

your children should be commended for the incredible maturity...good luck to you.

Posted 22/05/2009 13:20:49

Posted by sarah-louise

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Ignore the stupid bullies and bitches! You are stunning and they are jelous of your job xx

Posted 01/09/2009 18:27:29

Posted by Harriet92

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

You go girl! you got what it takes... do the best that you can then the bullies and bitches wont be laughing!!! prove to them and most importantly to yourself that you are better than them. they are low lives! xx

Posted 01/11/2009 17:51:46

Posted by Joz

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

she can be who she wants to be, and good luck to her, she will still be boring and miserable to me.

Posted 26/12/2009 12:06:42

Posted by jazzyjade

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

i no people dont like esther but she is lovely u dont no her she i a lovely women and u need to get to no her i am best mates with katie and lewis her children and they are a lovely family xxxx

from jade dyer

Posted 19/03/2010 12:31:10

Posted by NWILLIAMS

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

Wow... I have to say, I have some home truths to share with the haters out there!

I went to school with Esther Adams and this is the first i have heard about her having an eating disorder- that makes me laugh. She's always been enviably slim and athletic. She has and has always had a model's figure- the fact that she has a flat tummy after 2 babies is amazing and she deserves to be congratulated for following her dreams while taking care of her family at the same time.

How spiteful people can be. It makes me so sad. They don't know her, and they don't care. It's a sad reflection our society today where a stranger can hurl abuse and a lit cigarette at a mother doing her job.

The thing about Esther that the onlookers don't know is that she's a 'real' person in every sense. She's kind and honest and beautiful inside. She's hard working and a dreamer, she makes things happen and she sticks to her guns. AND she's beautiful on the outside with a figure most of us ladies would kill for. She's been through an incredibly tough ride in her life and the fact that she's STILL following her dreams with a smile and hasn't given up and hidden in a job and a life she hates is something to admire.

She would never shout abuse at a stranger, she would never throw things or bully another person because she IS better than they are. The thing about her is, she would never admit it.

Esther IS beautiful- inside and out, she's NEVER had an eating disorder, that top photo IS of her. The people with a negative attitude SHOULD be jealous of her because she's the type of person with the type of life an ignorant bully too consumed with picking holes in someone else to fix their own issues could never attain.

~Natalie

Posted 14/07/2010 15:23:23

Posted by newtonlb01

RE: Bullies wont stop me being Posh

stick at it! stupid bullies never deserve to win

Posted 21/11/2011 18:06:25



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