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Jade in her own words

Monday 23 March 2009

Devoted mum and wife, reality star and, tragically, a victim of cervical cancer who raised the disease’s profile immeasurably – Jade Goody did so much. We take a look at her life, in her own words.

Jade goody was a ditzy 21 year old when she shot to fame on Big Brother in 2002. Leaving the house, the dental nurse from Bermondsey said she wanted to be remembered “as the person who let everyone see every single side of her and they either liked her or they didn’t.”

And her antics in the BB house certainly ensured that was the case.

She thought “East Angular” was abroad and when the other housemates talked about Brazilian city Rio de Janeiro, she piped up: “Ain’t that a person?”

In her autobiography, Jade recalled her first interview with Davina. She wrote: “They showed me a clip of all these things I’d said in the house like ‘tacticals,’ ‘Portuganese,’ ‘an escape goat,’ ‘wirelephones’ and ‘Tunisia being near India.’ And talking about ‘East Angular’ – which I still didn’t know was wrong until I found out later.

“I just thought, ‘You’re such a nugget, Jade. What were you doing?’”

Despite her fame and fortune, Jade always said her proudest achievement was being a mum to her two boys, Bobby, five, and Freddy, four.

After becoming a mum, by TV presenter Jeff Brazier, for the first time in 2003, she described it as: “The strangest thing – all of a sudden I was handed this little human being.

“Bobby’s such a beautiful boy, I love being his mum so much.”

The following year she had son Freddy and announced: “My boys are the most important and precious things in my life.”

Jade’s devotion to her sons was obvious and, as a protective mother, she always made sure they had the best things in life.

Despite gruelling chemo at Christmas, she played the Wicked Queen in the panto of Snow White in Lincoln to raise money for their future, although she was unable to complete the two-month run as her health deteriorated.

And during her final few weeks, and despite her agonising pain, Jade bravely secured a series of lucrative magazine interviews in order to ensure her beloved sons would be looked after.

She said she hoped they’d grow up into good people, saying: “I just hope they’re sensible, stick at school and get a good job. I don’t care what they do as long as they have a roof over their heads and keep out of trouble, and most  of all be happy.”

Jade expressed her wish that Jeff get full custody of the kids, saying: “Their dad Jeff will make sure they’re well looked after. He’s a good dad and the boys love him.”

But she also wanted her mum Jackiey Budden and husband Jack Tweed to have an active role in their upbringing.

She said: “Jeff has been brilliant and I know they’ll always have my mum and Jack and their godparents as well to make sure they’re OK.”

And in the hope of remaining close to her children after her death, Jade had the boys and herself christened.

She said: “I’d always wanted the boys christened, but have never got round to it. Now it feels even more important.

It’s a way of feeling closer to Bobby and Freddy when I’m gone.”

She added: “I have always believed in God and heaven, and I want my boys to know that when I do go, I am safe and looking over them. I want them to know that when you do die, you don’t just stop living, that you end up living somewhere else.”

But as she struggled to come to terms with leaving behind her “lovely little men,” she cried: “I’m devastated I won’t see my boys grow into men and get married. That’s what mums always dream of, isn’t it?”

Jade proved she was nobody’s fool after she became the highest-earning Big Brother contestant.

She owned two beauty salons, one called Ugly’s, made millions from her exclusive magazine deals and bought a house worth £700,000.

Last year, she even said: “I am very organised, contrary to public opinion. I’d probably surprise people with quite how good a businesswoman I am too.”

Jade launched perfume Shh… in 2006, which was Superdrug’s biggest-selling scent at one point, and she launched a second fragrance, aptly named Controversial, in 2008.

And even after being diagnosed with cancer, Jade was determined to secure the future of her  beloved sons Bobby Jack and Freddy.

She said: “When I first knew I had cancer, I worked out a strategy.

“I thought, if I earn enough while I’m sick there will be enough for them to go to private school until they are 16.

“What’s the point of everything I have if I can’t do that for them?”

CLICK HERE FOR MORE OF JADE IN HER OWN WORDS

By battling cervical cancer so publicly, brave Jade encouraged thousands of
women to have cervical smears - meaning numerous lives could be saved. If
your life has been saved by the "Jade effect" contact Closer on 0207 859
8455.

Posted by alisha98

RE: Jade in her own words

its such a shame she has gone. she is an amazing woman and she really made a good thing out of her life like she said being a mum. bless her R.I.P. jade you will never be forgotten. all my love to jade and her family xx

Posted 23/03/2009 15:32:17

Posted by pink1976

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things always seem to happen to good people,,yes she is an amazing woman,since she became a victim to the cervicl cancer she put it out there that women should be tested at the age of 16 not 25,,and the gouverment have taken note of it,if it wasn`t for jade i think the gouverment would keep it at 25,,, so i think thats why god choose her to have the disease cos he knows that she will change the way things r now,plus to get other women tested and save lives of other younger women,...i like to say Rest in peace Jade Goody u will always be remembered,,,,in a tribute to u i`m having the 3 hearts that u got on ur arm on mine,,,ur boys will be so so proud of u,, they will know u a an amazing mother that who wanted to save other women out there,,,, R.I.P JADE GOODY,,

Posted 23/03/2009 17:47:19

Posted by Kathy McGowan

RE: Jade in her own words

Jade you were amazing. I couldn't have coped with half of what you went thru (and I've had brain surgery!). Your boys will be so proud of you when they grow up and learn what you have done for them in your last few weeks. God will make sure you are looked after up there and will make you into an angel so you can be there to watch over your boys. The world will really miss you. Rest in peace.

Posted 24/03/2009 12:32:17

Posted by rachel savva

RE: Jade in her own words

Jade wasn't everybodys cup of tea I know that. I personally found her sense of humour and personality really funny but admit that I would never stick up for her before her illness was diagnosed as I knew not everydody shared my opinion. However she now will have me defending her at every turn. Small minded people have made awful comments about her and I cannot beleive how disgusting these people have been. Jade showed her strength of character and sense of humour almost to the end and thought of everyone bar herself when she publicised her illness. She has raised the awareness of the big C and made people realise it could happen to them so they should get checked out. She has secured her childrens future knowing it was her last chance to do this. I wish I had her strength of character and think the world is a darker place without her in it. RIP Jade xxxxxx

Posted 24/03/2009 18:23:05

Posted by onlinebabe

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the thing about jade was she was a strong character and in your face but she said out loud what people thought, she did have a temper so she lost it but cant a girl loose her rag-shes only human

she was funny and up for a laugh and also kind-hearted lavishley paying out trips abroad for family and freinds and today we know her for being the good mother she is

she had a tragic life but also had some lucky times but she was un-lucky in ways -the cancer ravished her body so quickly and then to die from it when 50% women are lucky to survive it is a shame

I WHOLEHEARTEDLY BELIEVE GOODY WAS PUT ON EARTH FOR A REASON AND THAT WAS TO SAVE LIVES- BY RAISING THIS AWARENESS -SADLY FOR HER HER OWN LIFE HAS BEEN SACRAFICED BUT THAT LEGACY WILL FOEVER LIVE ON..

SHE is now doing her job up in heaven with the rest of the angels

Posted 25/03/2009 03:19:20

Posted by natalie27

RE: Jade in her own words

I'd just like to say how very sad i feel by Jade's death, it's not like i personally knew her but as a nation we first watched her on our screens, entertaining us on Big Brother and most of us have been following her life ever since.
It is devastating that she has now passed away and left behind her 2 beautiful boys who deserved to have there mother.
Jade dealt with her Cancer AMAZINGLY and was mostly pictured with a smile, even towards the end when she must have been in so much pain..
R.I.P Jade, your boys will never forget you and they will always be very proud of who there mother was and what she'd achieved in her short life..xxx

Posted 25/03/2009 11:48:24



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