Posted by clarabella
RE: Heartbroken Elen still loves Frank
Aww bless her,it must be awful for her if she still love's him.
She's not to old at 34 to move on,i was 33 when i left my cheating ex,& i met the love of my life who treats me & my son with so much respect,i too cried at the time,its a hard thing to do walk away especially when kids are involved,but you do get through it & come out the other side a better and stronger person for it!
My son has never been happier,me & his dad no longer argue (although he does still try to control me,but fails : ) )
Its the best thing she could have ever done by walking away,because i'm affraid Frank will never change & to be honest i don't know what she ever saw in him!
I hope Elen will eventually be as happy as i am now,good luck.x
Posted 23/04/2009 09:38:25
Posted by racheal
RE: Heartbroken Elen still loves Frank
awwww bless. & i agree with clarabella, elen isnt old at all. she's only 34! that's not old!
& i think that if Frank is being so cold hearted, then she should try & move on, just like he is doing. i know it will be hard at first, but she'll eventually feel better x
Posted 23/04/2009 10:43:30
Posted by lovingmum
RE: Heartbroken Elen still loves Frank
Thinking she is too old to start over is proof that she needs her confidence boosting and lots of tlc and he couldnt have been treating her that well if shes left thinking like this. Their marriage fell apart cos of him and his careless selfish attitude. She deserves to be with someone who will respect her above anything else. She should kick his arse to the kerb even if he came crawling back to her. You dont need him or any man to make something of your life. Your strong, attractive and in a far better position than he is. If he carries on like this he'l just end up a has been lonely old man. You can do so much with your life and your are in a much better financial position than a lot of other women. I was left with two kids one of whom had just been born with no money, no job (i was on maternity leave) and a pile of his debts. I was 36 at the time. Now at 41 my life is the best its ever been. After being single for 5 yrs i finally met the love of my life who treats me and the kids with so much love and respect. So stop feeling sorry for yourself, think of your kids and make the most of what you have.
Posted 23/04/2009 11:32:05
Posted by sarie75
RE: Heartbroken Elen still loves Frank
She's an absolutely stunning woman, but i feel it's the lifestyle she's craving more than anything. She's said she's not 23 like Coleen with a great career, which leaves me thinking that she depended on Frank Lampard for everything and is now wishing she'd taken the opportunity to use their realationship to her favour and carve a career out nothing like her fellow wag Coleen. There's nothing wrong with that, but to be totally honest, it's the wags like Elen, who stay in the background and are happy to be there that have the publics true respect. It's a sad fact that if you were to ask the majority of 15year old girls what they aspire to be, their answer would be "a wag". I have great respect for any woman with children going through a messy break up, it's a painful, emotional rollercoaster but one that she will have eventually ridden. She'll come away wondering how and why she ended up with someone like Frank Lampard, and without even realising it, her confidence and independence will have grown.
Posted 23/04/2009 21:07:54