'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
Tuesday 18 January 2011
After losing a whopping 44st, Colin Corfield should have been brimming with confidence and finally ready to fall in love.
But one thing held him back – his drastic weight loss had left him with an enormous apron of loose skin hanging from his tummy, plus bingo wings, man boobs and baggy skin around his knees.
The skin made him so paranoid he refused to approach women because he couldn’t bear the thought of anyone seeing him naked.
But after three major operations to cut away an incredible 11⁄2st of excess skin, Colin, 40, is finally happy with his trim 14st frame and is keen to meet the woman of his dreams.
“Girls were never interested in me when I was fat,” he says. “But now women chat me up all the time. I used to hate the way I looked and wanted to hide away, but now the rolls of skin have gone I feel unstoppable.”
Colin’s new-found confidence comes a year after he told Closer how his mum sold her home to pay for a gastric bypass operation that helped him shed 44st.
Just four years ago Colin, who’s 5ft 9, weighed 60st and spent his days gorging on takeaways and guzzling 30 pints of lager.
Barely able to move, he was bed-ridden, kept a bucket by his bed to use as a toilet and had to use an oxygen mask in case his bulk constricted his lungs.
Yet, despite being warned by GPs he needed to shed half his body weight or die, he couldn’t kick his £50-a-day addiction to junk food.
Colin says his bad habits began as a child, when he’d secretly spend his pocket money on chocolate and crisps.
“Bullies called me Tommy 10 Bellies at school and I’d always turn to food for comfort,” he says. “I tried every diet going and once lost 14st, but I’d always pile the weight back on because I had no willpower. I was so depressed but couldn’t stop eating.”
But after watching a TV programme about gastric surgery in autumn 2005, Colin realised it could change his life forever. But he needed to lose some weight before he could have surgery, otherwise he risked dying under the anaesthetic.
He enrolled at Slimming World, swapped takeaways for salads and fruit, and even hired the local pool so he could swim in private. Meanwhile he begged the NHS to pay for a £32,000 gastric surgery op, but was told there was a three-year wait.
“That was too long for me,” he explains. “I knew this was the only way to get slim and stay slim. I didn’t want to die fat.”
So his mum Jean, 71, sold her bungalow and moved into sheltered accommodation to raise the cash. She says: “I was sad to leave my house, but I was desperate to help.”
Colin adds: “When Mum said she’d sell her house, I thought it was pretty drastic but I knew it was the only way I’d survive.”
After a year of dieting, Colin dropped a huge 22st to 38st and was able to have the three-hour op in November 2006. Surgeons cut away most of his stomach, leaving him with just a small pouch the size of an egg, which restricts how much he can eat.
Now, instead of scoffing huge meals, he gets full on just a few mouthfuls.
“I do miss eating doner kebabs,” he admits. “But I’d rather go without than be fat again.” But after reaching 16st,
Colin was left with overstretched skin hanging below his knees.
“It was a nightmare,” he says. “I’d no idea my body wouldn’t bounce back and hated the idea of anyone seeing all that disgusting extra skin. I’d try to disguise it by tucking it in my trousers, but I’d end up with a bulge and I couldn’t wear tight tops because I had man boobs.
“I’d get sores because the skin was hard to keep clean,” he says. “I’d lost the weight, but having all that skin was still ruining my life. I asked the NHS for an op to get rid of it, but they refused on financial grounds.”
But when doctors at the McIndoe Surgical Centre in London heard about Colin’s plight, they offered to help and agreed to carry out three operations free of charge.
“I was ecstatic,” says Colin. “I could never have afforded the work myself.”
Surgeons first tackled the saggy apron around his stomach in June. Then in October they worked on his arms, chest, thighs and knees. Seven weeks ago, doctors cut away excess skin from his torso and stitched it back together to make the skin tight.
“When I woke up the skin had gone. It was mind-blowing,” says Colin. “I’d dreamed about that for so long.”
After a week recovering in hospital, Colin returned to his flat in Runcorn, Cheshire, and his life is already changing for the better.
He says: “It was painful while I recovered, but I’m thrilled with the results. I can even wear jeans and tight T-shirts.”
Colin’s scars are still healing but he’s already making plans for the future. He says: “I know there’s scarring, but that doesn’t bother me. I’d much rather have a few bad scars than all that horrible droopy skin.
“And it’s so much better than being a fat person stuck in bed and just wanting to die.”
Now Colin’s joined a gym so he can build up his muscles, and he wants to go travelling and take up extreme sports like sky diving. He’s having more luck with the ladies as well.
“I’m a party animal now,” says pipeline engineer Colin. “Before I’d stand on my own in clubs while my mates went off to dance, but now they have to drag me off the stage.
“Women stop me and tell me I’m good-looking – my life’s transformed.
“When I was bed-bound, all I could dream about was being skinny and now I’m there. “I can’t wait to strip off for a woman and show off my new body.”
By Suzanne Finney
Colin appears in Extreme Slimmers, Tuesday 13 January, 9pm, ITV1
Posted by clarabella
RE: 'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
Aww bless him,he looks great!
He's got a mum in a million there to do what she did.
I can't believe he was told there was a three year waiting list,it must have been awful for his mum to leave her home,but im sure she's just happy that he's happy now.
Keep up the good work Colin.
All the best in your new healthy life.
Posted 06/01/2009 09:38:39
Posted by jopabrca
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what a lovely mum.
good luck colin keeping the weight off its the hardest. i supose the surgery will help keep it off.
i always regain what i lost and more. so have stopped dieting..now weigh 17st i was only 12 when i first went on a diet.
Posted 06/01/2009 15:39:40
Posted by clarabella
RE: 'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
You'l get there one day im sure jopabrca,just keep going.
It is hard to keep it off once you have lost alot of weight,but don't give up and don't look at it as a 'diet' just healthier eating. Set yourself little goals and have treats now and again,if you fancy a pizza on a saturday night,have one,then eat healthy the rest of the week,walk instead of driving or catching the bus every other day,you'l be surprised what a difference it makes.
Good luck,
Posted 06/01/2009 17:33:24
Posted by x-lucy-x
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he has totally transformed his life and should be honoured to have such a kind, wonderful mother
lucy
Posted 06/01/2009 21:46:54
Posted by kitty kat
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Well done Colin, keep up the good work. I know ur mum gave up her house but i bet shes the proudest mum to see you all fit & healthy. Plus she wont have to worry about your health as much now that ur taking care of yourself. Bravo to u, i doubt ull be single for much longer.
Posted 11/01/2009 00:27:39
Posted by Tina09
RE: 'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
is that how much a gastric bypass is?? £32,000? well done to colin, he's a lovely looking guy for an older man, and has a mum in a million!
I cant believe the NHS wouldnt help with the skin though, they give women free boob jobs, this is worse! x
Posted 11/01/2009 22:03:12
Posted by Tina09
RE: 'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
is that how much a gastric bypass is?? £32,000? well done to colin, he's a lovely looking guy for an older man, and has a mum in a million!
I cant believe the NHS wouldnt help with the skin though, they give women free boob jobs, this is worse! x
Posted 11/01/2009 22:05:53
Posted by dani-W
RE: 'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
it's his fault that he got so fat (£50 a day habit on junk food and 30 pints of lager), so why should he expect the NHS to sort it out for him.
I don't think that gastric bypass surgery should be on the NHS, or correcting his lose skin, as it's the person's fault they got like that, and they don't help themselves - unless it's caused by an actual medical problem not just from eating too much.
If he wants to lose weight he should have cut down his intake, eat healthily and exercise, not expect the taxpayers to pick up his pieces.
what a lovely mother though & i wish him luck.
Posted 14/01/2009 12:37:54
Posted by looooraaaa
RE: 'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
I don't see why the NHS should help with surgery such as saggy skin removal or boob operations. My great-grandma was on various waiting lists in the last three years of her life and was suffering with breast cancer. The NHS' answer to this was: lack of funding. I'm sorry but if women embraced their bodies and individuals in general didn't become morbidly obese (lets remember unless you have prada-wili syndrome, you CHOOSE to become large) then the NHS would have more funding for genuinely needy cases.
I'm not saying this man hasn't done well, his story is inspiring to those in a similar situation, but it does annoy me that other people have to wait for funding due to our morbidly-obese sector of the population.
Posted 15/01/2009 13:47:57
Posted by clarabella
RE: 'I'm ready for love after my body lift surgery'
The NHS are in such a state not because of people like Colin,but because of the government!
They hand out money to idle people who sit on their arses all day and claim benifits for conditions they dont have!
If the government and benifits teams were to do proper checks on the idle gits who claim millions of tax payers money,then maybe that money they are pinching daily could go into the NHS instead of down the pub,drugs etc!!
Yes Colin got that big through is own greed,but people also get cancer through smoking,people have back problems through having large boobs,people need knee opps through playing football,people need plastic surgery through having motorbike accidents etc,etc all could be prevented if they didn't do those things (excluding the large boobs) should they all be turned away from treatment because they brought it on theirselfs?!
If youve put into the system then you deserve treatment!
Posted 16/01/2009 09:56:59
Posted by looooraaaa
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Yes, I wasn't discluding those who smoke take drugs etc. I was making a point and illustrating it using my great-grandma who payed taxes all her life just to die from a very uncomfortable bout of breast cancer and see her hard earned money go on cases of undeserving people. She was on waiting lists because undeserving people accessed NHS funding through their own fault.
Also I don't think you can draw parallels between someone over eating and someone playing football, people need to exercise and indulge in hobbies. People don't need to eat above 2000-2500 calories a day. I'm not saying he DIDN'T deserve treatment for making himself obese, but he has removed the health risk and now wants cosmetic surgery, which I don't think people should gain through the NHS unless it is a case such as being in a fire.
I know Colin and people like him aren't the sole cause of waiting lists being terrible, I agree entirely on the benefits point...what I was trying to say was that if people had more respect for themselves in general then there wouldn't be so many NHS related issues.
Posted 16/01/2009 21:30:23
Posted by dani-W
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This should not be offered on NHS. It's his fault he got fat, so he should get himself slimmed down if that's what he wants. Diet and exercise! I don't want my taxes to go to people who sponge off the system and expect others to pick up the pieces of their mistakes.
And he definitely shouldn't have got that cosmetic surgery to get rid of excess skin, he expected it and was outraged that he didn't get that surgery right away. If you eat that much, what do you think is going to happen? And fatty's do get priority on waiting lists which is completely ridiculous. Waste of resources.
Posted 27/01/2009 12:39:18
Posted by clarabella
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Would you say annorexics waste resources aswell? Would you say its their fault their body's are like they are because they choose not to eat and they should get theirself better by eating!!
It works both ways,you cant say overweight people only have theirself to blame,but annorexics are ill,so they can have NHS treatment.
Everybody should get free treatment whatever the reason.
Posted 29/01/2009 18:10:49
Posted by wiselady
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After all Colin has been through, having his gastric by-pass, losing the weight, exercising and having all that excess skin removed, I feel so happy for him and hope he gets what he wants out of life. After reading some of the comments, I must say I can understand some people who go on about the cost to the NHS etc. and that nobody should get like that in the first place but eating can be a form off addiction and a person can get beyond the stage of turning back and just comfort eat to make themselves feel better thus adding to their problem. Colin really did the only thing he could do to remedy his problem and suffered along the way so good on him!
Posted 11/02/2009 23:56:39
Posted by Ashlee
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Aww You Look So Good For It, And Do You Know What I Dont Even Know You And Im Proud Of You FOr DOing What You Wanted And Not What Someone Else Wanted,,Good Luck 4 The Future And Finding Your Lady,,Trust Me U Will Find Her Soon xx
Posted 31/03/2009 11:40:35