My swinger mum has put me off sex Venessa Riley

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‘My swinger mum has put me off sex!’

Tuesday 12 April 2011

Sex-mad steph foster need not worry about her teenage daughter Vanessa sleeping around. Ironically, her noisy love-ins with hubby Paul have put Vanessa right off sex.

The saucy pair keep Vanessa awake at night with their steamy sessions and attend swinging parties at weekends – much to the teen’s disgust. “When Mum said they were swinging, I couldn’t believe it,” says Vanessa, who is left to babysit her three siblings, aged 11, seven and six. “I’m so disgusted.”

Paul, who’s straight, and divorced bisexual Steph, 37, got together four years ago and married last August. But within months of Paul, 45, moving into their home in Prestatyn, Denbighshire, in October 2006, the couple were having rampant sex sessions.

“The first time they had noisy sex, I hoped it was a one-off. It was grim,” says unemployed chef Vanessa. “Mum used to be shy about her body, but her huge pants vanished and I noticed thongs in the laundry.”

As Steph shed her inhibitions, her love life moved out of the bedroom. “Mum and Paul were always snogging and groping on the sofa,” Vanessa complains. “I used to feel that we had no secrets, but that stopped when I found six vibrators in Mum’s drawer.”

Vanessa lost her virginity in August 2009 to her first and only boyfriend but, a few weeks later, she accidentally stumbled across a raucous sex session while looking for painkillers in her mum’s bedroom. She remembers: “Mum was bouncing up and down on top of Paul. I was so embarrassed, but they just laughed. Now, any time I think about sex, I imagine them doing it. It makes me feel sick. I hope this changes one day, but at the moment I’m not tempted to have sex again because Mum’s put me off it.”

Vanessa, who split from her boyfriend after she fell out of love, only learned to knock on her mum’s bedroom door last summer after walking in on Paul lying naked on the bed – with a large erection.

Then last year over breakfast, Steph revealed she and Paul had started swinging at least once a month. Vanessa says: “I was horrified. Mum said they had group sex and swapped partners with strangers. They even invited their friends round before they went to swingers’ clubs.”

And in February this year, Steph added to Vanessa’s embarrassment when she and Paul appeared in Closer, boasting about partner-swapping. Vanessa reveals: “An elderly neighbour said: ‘Ooh, we have celebs in the street.’ She took it better than I did.”

Unfortunately for Vanessa, her mum’s sex life has crept into every corner of her life. “Last month, I saw Mum looking at all sorts of pictures on a swingers’ website. And if Paul’s been out, she’ll welcome him home in thigh-high PVC boots, then ask whether I’ve thought about an early night. That means they want a session in the kitchen.”

While Vanessa has sworn off sex, Steph constantly tries to get her to loosen up. Vanessa, who likes baking, reveals: “Mum recently bought me some lacy underwear – I told her to change it for something sensible. ”

And the teen’s had to get used to Steph being bisexual, saying: “It’s weird enough Mum sleeps with other men, but women too – I wonder what she’s going to fancy next!”

Mum Steph adds: “I know I’ve changed. Paul’s woken up a different side in me. We have sex in the kitchen, living room and even the car if we fancy. If I’m wearing a skirt, he’ll have a little fondle whatever time of day it is. I hope I haven’t put Vanessa off sex for life.”

By Mel Fallowfield