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‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Tuesday 24 May 2011

When 20-a-day smoker Charlie Wilcox discovered she was pregnant, she made the outrageous decision to continue her habit.

Smoking during pregnancy is the most common cause of sudden infant death syndrome but, shockingly, Charlie believes that it actually improved her little girl’s health – despite midwives explaining the risks it posed to her baby.

Revealing she smoked a staggering 4,500 cigarettes during pregnancy, she says: “My baby’s heart was forced to work harder, which was better for her in the long run.”

Midwives pleaded with Charlie, 20, to quit, explaining she could restrict her baby’s growth and brain development and risk her being born prematurely – but the deluded mum-to-be ignored their advice.

Speaking from the one-bedroom flat she shares with 12-week-old Lilly, boyfriend Shane Baker, 20, and mum Sam, 42, in Gillingham, Kent, unemployed Charlie says: “I love smoking, it’s my hobby. I didn’t bother to quit when I was pregnant because I knew it’d make my baby’s heart stronger.”

Charlie was just 14 when her then 16-year-old brother Nicholas – a 20-a-day smoker – offered her a cigarette. Their mum Sam, who also has a 20-a-day habit, smoked throughout both her pregnancies. 

Revealing that Nicholas suffered bronchitis due to passive smoking when he was a baby, and last year died of a heart attack aged 21 – though doctors are unsure what caused this – Charlie adds: “I hated the taste of it, but I wanted to fit in so I carried on.”

Charlie used her lunch money to buy four cigarettes a day off classmates. She says: “Mum caught me smoking when I was 15 but couldn’t tell me to stop because she smokes too. By then I was addicted.”

Then, after meeting current boyfriend Shane at college, Charlie accidentally fell pregnant in June 2010, aged 19. “It was a big shock, but we were excited,” she recalls.

Revealing she never considered giving up, she had a cigarette every 45 minutes during her pregnancy – up to 20 a day.

“I’d have a fag with every cup of tea. I felt her kick regularly, and scans showed she was healthy so I didn’t feel guilty,” she brags.

Butcher Shane, who smokes 20 a day, says: “I heard smoking was bad for the baby, but scans showed she had a regular heartbeat.”

Charlie, who lives on benefits, claims she cut down to five a day when she was seven months pregnant because money was tight and she had to buy things for her baby.

In February Lilly was born 10 days early at 6lb 2oz – more than a pound lower than the UK average of 7lb 4oz. Smoking in pregnancy can cause low birth weights, but Charlie insists Lilly was small because she’s 5ft 4.

Charlie even naively believes one of her pals miscarried because she quit smoking.

She insists: “She found pregnancy stressful, but if she’d carried on smoking it would’ve relaxed her.”

Doctor Sarah Jarvis says: “When you smoke, you inhale over 4,000 chemicals, including carbon monoxide. Depriving the baby of oxygen can reduce all aspects of growth, including brain development. This can lead to breathing problems and learning difficulties later in life. Smoking during pregnancy is also the single most common cause of sudden infant death syndrome.”

Charlie simply says: “I must have been lucky because my Lilly is doing great.”
She says she never smokes in front of Lilly, due to memories of her brother’s childhood bronchitis caused by passive smoking.

She adds: “I’ll give up one day, but I get  grumpy when I’ve not had a cigarette.”

By Natalie Corp

Posted by dibdobs

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

What an incredibly stupid, stupid woman - she has no brains and obviously no concern for the health, present and future, of her gorgeous little baby. Its women like her that make me so angry. That poor baby hasn't got a chance with an imbocile of a mother like that.

Posted 24/05/2011 12:10:52

Posted by sarafox

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Totally agree with the previous comment, it's disgusting. My mother smoked when she carried me, I was under weight and have now gone on to develop asthma. In my humble opinion, smoking should be banned from more places, including outdoor markets, town centres, etc and more assistance should be given from healthcare professionals to get as many people as possible to stop smoking for the health and wellbeing of everyone, ESPECIALLY innocent babies from careless pregnant mothers-to-be

Posted 24/05/2011 12:40:43

Posted by Patricua Lyndsey

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Does this woman have special needs ?

Posted 24/05/2011 18:46:16

Posted by koolkat

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

What a deluded airhead................social services should rescue this child now before she decideds to let the child smoke to stop her being moody. This sort of woman gives us all a bad name

Posted 24/05/2011 21:20:30

Posted by sugar sweet

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

agree with all the previous comments i cannot belive the stupidity of this women she is incredibly lucky to have such a gorgeous baby that is healthy, heaven forbid she does develop any health problems she probably still wont put 2 and 2 together because she is obviously thick as s***!

poor bubba doesnt stand a chance the whole family smoked so its more than likely she will as well, makes my stomach churn the thought of little baby in a flat full of disgusting, suffocating smoke.

i seriously think smoking in a house with children should be taken more seriously bu the likes of social services, it is soooo damaging and detrimental to a childs health and development and its not suprising when you hear that a single fag contains 4000 chemicals!

sarafox i agree with you about banning it in more places i hate the fact i can sit on the bench in my lunch break eating my lunch in the lovely sunshine and someone will come along and start blowing their dirty smoke in my face!

Posted 25/05/2011 11:57:43

Posted by jasper83

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

I have looked this woman up on Facebook just out of interest (not to abuse her or anything!) and low and behold her daughter lilly is now in intensive care. She's been having fits and needed a breathing tube. I couldn't believe it when i saw the comments from her friends wishing her little one back to health. I wonder if she still believes in what she says.

Some women would give there right arm for a chance at having a healthy child, let alone give up cigs!! I think she is stupid and totally selfish. I question weather she deserves this child at all.

I am pregnant myself and I loved nothing more than a glass of wine, but i think... you wouldn't give a baby a glass of wine (although I am not judging those of you who continued to have the odd tipple!) and neither would you give a baby 4500 fags. So bloody disturbing!

Posted 25/05/2011 17:02:49

Posted by dibdobs

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

OMG OMG OMG i have already commented on this story as I was horrified, but to read the last comment (and I have also looked up on facebook) this poor little girl is in intensive care. Regardless of what we have all thought, believe me I will put my hands up to thinking this woman shouldnt be allowed to be lucky enough to have a baby, but, even so, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. This poor little girl is poorly and struggling. Gosh I cant tell you how much I wish her well and hope she gets better really soon. Yes we can and will all say the mother has been incredibly selfish, but hey, no one would ever wish this on their worst enemy. Best of luck little Lilly - i hope you get better and stronger really really soon

Posted 25/05/2011 21:25:09

Posted by Kendra

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

"Charlie Proud-Mummy Wilcox (Lillys Mummy)"

Posted 26/05/2011 17:22:04

Posted by Kendra

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

This is her facebook page and this gorgeous little girl isn't well!

Posted 27/05/2011 17:12:46

Posted by Snowrose

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

I love dole-scum stories they do make me laugh

Posted 29/05/2011 19:52:22

Posted by discokelz

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

How can you say this story makes u laugh- normally I takethen withz punch if salt but if the poor little baby is in intensive car that makes me scj to my stomach. These scumbags don't deserve children social services should have taken her away and given the baby to a decent couple unable to have children who would bring the baby up in a loving home. I have an 8 month old and the thought of inhaling this crap into my body whilst pregnant makes me feel sick. Poor baby.

Posted 29/05/2011 23:18:21

Posted by Shaka

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

This bint is an absolute moron. I hope she realises the chances are highly likely that the poor baby's poor health is due to the fact she's a selfish, unfit mother! I smoked from a young age, when I got pregnant I gave up, it made me sick the thought of a mother-to-be pumping their developing baby with chemicals! This girl seems to have the mentality of a child, not a 20-year-old...hopefully as she gets older she'll develop a brain and look back and feel immense guilt, like she should do now! It's child abuse, plain and simple. An adult can get in trouble for giving a child the smallest of slaps, yet this so called adult can inflict pain and long lasting damage to a baby without being questioned!? I hope the baby gets well soon.

Posted 29/05/2011 23:51:38

Posted by ginababesxx

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

it is her baby her choice personally i agree with the midwives. people should just stop leaving comments saying she is selfish and unfit and things like that it is none of their buisness.

Posted 30/05/2011 19:10:59

Posted by Pudding-Pot

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

What a stupid girl, there are women out there who can't have baby's and then there are d*cks like this that just spit them out and don't give a crap, sod it I will smoke, probably drink, probably something harder if she is thinking like this, what a rediculose story, she should be ashamed of herself, SOME PEOPLE NEED TO BE SPADE!

Also, to the comment directly above, if she did not want it to be anyone's business she would not have bubmitted her story and look so god damn proud of it, its her baby her choice? Wtf, it's not the kid's choice, is it really that hard to quit smoking for 9 months?

Posted 31/05/2011 08:05:40

Posted by Shaka

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Exactly!! Well said!

Posted 31/05/2011 11:12:48

Posted by jmb411

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

If smoking when she was pregnant wasn't bad enough - consider the poor baby's lungs now with her mother and her grandmother and her father all on over 20 a day - her lungs must be black already. Didn't this thicko consider what happened to her brother might well happen to her and her daughter too? Honestly some people just shouldn't have children but then again too thick to use contraception as well I suppose. Must be like kissing a dirty ashtray.

Posted 01/06/2011 15:55:49

Posted by kerry bell

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

What a selfish woman, that poor child being subjected to all that smoke. people like that shouldn't be allowed to bring children up.

Posted 01/06/2011 22:55:58

Posted by Nicki26

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Oh people are so nieve to the fact that every thing you read is all ment to be true, not the fact that the program had most of the girls saying they were told to do things and say things! My mother smoked with me and my other siblings and we have all been fine, the fact people are saying she is a bad parent is disgusting! None of you know this girl it's your opinion! Her little girl was I'll and if you went on her Facebook you would of read what was wring with her, what about women that binge eat crap during pregnancy or you women that feed your children mc Donaldson that is just as bad yet I bet you don't think it's bad even tho it's full if crap. Yea smoking is bad but for you to say the baby needs to be taken away as he us in fit I think you should take a ling hard look at your selves as no one is perfect.

Posted 02/06/2011 02:42:18

Posted by Nicki26

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Oh people are so nieve to the fact that every thing you read is all ment to be true, not the fact that the program had most of the girls saying they were told to do things and say things! My mother smoked with me and my other siblings and we have all been fine, the fact people are saying she is a bad parent is disgusting! None of you know this girl it's your opinion! Her little girl was Ill and if you went on her Facebook you would of read what was wrong with her, what about women that binge eat crap during pregnancy or you women that feed your children mc Donalds that is just as bad yet I bet you don't think it's bad even tho it's full if crap. Yeah smoking is bad but for you to say the baby needs to be taken away as she is un fit I think you should take a long hard look at your selves as no one is perfect.

Posted 02/06/2011 02:46:14

Posted by Snowrose

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

@ Discokelz

I wish the little girl a safe recovery but what makes me laugh is the volume of dole scum in this country who do nothing with their lives and expect others to pay for them. Chavs who have kids should be made to sit tests to see if they are intelligent enough to raise children, some of them can't even spell their own names...

Posted 02/06/2011 13:38:03

Posted by natz1988

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

omg how pathetic all are you need to look in the mirror we all have imperfections and no everything u read is true it may say real life but certain things get twisted to suit narrow minded people such as yourselves get a life and get a grip!!!!

Posted 04/06/2011 22:06:14

Posted by missk2011

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Nice to see my well payed taxes are being put to good use !! Helping dole scum chavs damage there poor little babies before they even take their first breath ! Good on you love hope you havent damaged your baby too much ! Some people cant even have babies then there is the like of you who can but destroy them before they are even born with your selfishness !!

Posted 05/06/2011 10:46:03

Posted by missk2011

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Nice to see my well payed taxes are being put to good use !! Helping dole scum chavs damage there poor little babies before they even take their first breath ! Good on you love hope you havent damaged your baby too much ! Some people cant even have babies then there is the like of you who can but destroy them before they are even born with your selfishness !!

Posted 05/06/2011 10:46:09

Posted by Snowrose

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

OMG natz1988 you've commented on this one too. Why are you so sympathetic to these losers plights. Maybe you should get a life and get a grip boiiiiii (or whaetver it is chavs say)

Posted 05/06/2011 19:30:56

Posted by lucy thurtell

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Theres imperfections then theres being so ill-educated that you think smoking will actually make your baby stronger. I'm not sure who's to blame for it but this story really chills me.

Posted 06/06/2011 15:14:08

Posted by Beckahh'lou

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

This Story is ridiculous!
My mom smoked with me and im fine too dont get me wrong she tried to quit ... couldnt do it, so she cut down a hell of a lot.
... but not once did she ever smoke more because she thaught it was helping the babys heart beat stronger. Thats got to be the most stupidest thing i have ever heard!!! Just think what strain thats putting on that poor baby!
She needs to stop thinking about herself and start thinking about her baby! She obviously doesnt care for her baby otherwise when the midwives told her what she was doing to her baby (which im sure they know more then her about it) she didnt even bat an eyelid! she needs to be thankful that her baby did come out a healthy little girl!

Posted 15/06/2011 17:30:40

Posted by NessieJadexx

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

Why are some people so ignorant to the help around them, this mother (if you can even call her that!) clearly Social Services should get involved. If a mother drank alcohol or took non-perscription drugs while pregnant and the child was born with defects because of this, the child would be taken into care! but no..because it was just nicotine it was deemed ok!! Its enough to make me sick! If a 15 year old girl can see there is something seriously wrong with this situation then why can't the authourities?!?!?!

Posted 16/06/2011 14:56:26

Posted by n.s

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

I smoked (not very much admittedly) before I fell pregnant with my daughter, but the minute I knew I was pregnant, there was no way I
would have done anything to harm her. I know if you smoke a lot its a lot harder to give up, and people who have never smoked can sound a bit
patronising and self righteous about it because they don't understand its an addiction, and as such hard to stop. BUT once you are carrying another human being inside you, they have to come first, and if giving up smoking, makes you grumpy, so what, get on with it, its not all about
you anymore. The fact she has sold her story to a magazine and is basically boasting and making rediculous statements about making her
unborn babies heart work harder, (WTF?) proves she is either totally thick or doesn't care one bit about her baby. Either way its pretty sad for that georgous little girl who deserves so much more.

Posted 24/06/2011 14:28:28

Posted by Lyss

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

stupid ignorant little girl... perhaps you should stop claiming benefits, should have had a better education (though im not sure you actually went to school..) because it doesnt take much to know smoking wont make your baby's heart better.. if anything making it beat faster (because there was little oxygen) will damage it in the long run.. cardiac muscle doesnt get energy from other sources. and once those cells are dead, theyre gone. makes me so angry when professionals give out the best advice and stupid girls like this just ignore it. they dont tell you things for a laugh, they are serious.. and "I must have been lucky because my Lilly is doing great.”.. implies she knows it was a bad idea.. so therefore just thought about herself and used her dumbness and her baby as an excuse to carry on..
and finally.. HER BROTHER DIED DUE TO SMOKE RELATED ISSUES FROM PASSIVE SMOKE?! why would she be soooo stupid as to smoke and pump all the chemicals that killed him, into her baby, and insist it helps? when shes witnessed that it doesnt...
poor poor baby.. i feel so sorry for the baby, it has to go through a life of possibly struggling with health because of its stupid mother, no concept of work or education because the mother clearly didnt go to school or learn much and claims benefits which we all have to pay for.. one word for you girl.. SELFISH.

Posted 03/11/2011 14:29:59

Posted by thedizzyrocker

RE: ‘I smoked 4,500 cigs to make my baby stronger'

I hope that baby is taken away from that stupid b****

Posted 02/09/2012 21:41:45



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