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Benefits mum

‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

Tuesday 29 May 2012

Despite having 10 children between them, Stephanie Fennessy-Sharp and partner Ian Sharp don’t work – instead, they claim almost £50,000 in state handouts every year, the equivalent of a £72k salary before tax.

While Ian, 56, says he can’t work due to headaches, healthy Stephanie opts not to get a job because the couple – who have six of the children living at their five-bedroom detached home in Kent – are better off on benefits.

But, in an unusual twist, proud Stephanie has opted to work 40 hours a week in a charity shop for free – insisting she’s not a “stereotypical scrounger” and wants to give something back to society. Incredibly, the mum says it makes more sense for her to work for free than earn a wage that would be a fraction of the handouts she’d then lose.

The 29 year old – who even admits she claims some benefits she doesn’t need – says: “We’re not lazy scroungers who watch TV all day. We’re taking advantage of the system, but that’s the system’s fault – we’d be silly not to with so many mouths to feed. It’s ridiculous, but I’m better off volunteering than earning – we’re well off and I’m not going to give that up until I have to.”

Although Stephanie’s approach is unusual, her ability to claim so much in handouts is worryingly common. The mum – who has three kids, Jack, 10, Charlie, eight, and Steven, six, with her ex- husband and is stepmum to Ian’s seven kids, Bobbie, 19, Nicole, 16, Alexandra, 14, Sian, 13, Callum, 10, Cameron, seven, and Summer, three, with his ex-wife – speaks as Government statistics reveal the annual benefits bill has almost reached £13billon.

Former shop worker Stephanie – who says having children stopped her following her dream of teaching – quit her job in 2003 when she had Charlie.

She was living in a three-bed privately rented home – paid for with housing benefit – and claiming income support, child benefit, child tax credits and council tax benefit when she started a relationship with family friend Ian in December 2008.

Explaining she’d split from her children’s dad, she says: “As a single mum, I couldn’t afford to work and pay for childcare.”

Ian a former factory worker who hasn’t been employed for two decades after developing migraines, moved in – and his children Alexandra, Callum and Cameron followed just over a year later. He started claiming benefits with Stephanie, plus £60 a week incapacity benefit, which includes a carer’s allowance for Stephanie – although she admits Ian only suffers with severe migraines every three weeks.

Each year, the family get £4,524 child benefit, £14,456 tax credits, £1,200 council tax benefit and £8,320 incapacity benefit. They also receive £20,400 housing benefit a year – a staggering £1,700 a month. In total, they get £48,900 a year. They were given a four-bed council house in April 2010 – but, incredibly, in February 2011 they were moved to a privately rented five-bed house in leafy Erith. The house boasts a large back garden, a driveway and a garage – where they park their Toyota Previa people carrier.

Because she’s Ian’s carer, Stephanie doesn’t qualify for Jobseeker’s Allowance and so doesn’t risk losing her other benefits by not applying for jobs.

But in order to receive carer’s allowance, she should be caring for Ian 35 hours a week, which she admits she doesn’t need to.

Surprisingly, Stephanie also freely admits they’re taking advantage of the benefits system.

She says: “Obviously, I could work and I’d like to. I feel guilty about how much we claim – we don’t even need a five-bedroom house as the kids could share. But it’s a nice area with good schools.

“We got the upgrade after we told the council we didn’t like our old house – it was damp and one of the kids’ bedrooms was by the front door, which worried me. It’s nice having the extra space for  when Ian’s other kids stay.

“The benefits are being offered to me, so I’d be silly to turn them down. I know taxpayers are being punished – I hate taking their money. But we’re being allowed to get away with it,” she adds, insisting she doesn’t splash out on expensive treats for the kids and buys secondhand clothes.

Astonishingly, in February, her shame drove her to take an unpaid job in a charity shop, working 40 hours a week.

The mum, who has nine A-C GSCEs, decided it was the only way to give back to society.

Stephanie, who says her friends and family support her decision not to get a job, says: “I’m hard-working – being jobless goes against the grain. My dad works on the London Underground and I want my kids to get good jobs. I worry people look at us and think, ‘Look at that trampy benefits family.’

“I don’t want to fall into the trap of no job, no confidence. I want to meet new people – and teach my kids a work ethic. My young children think I get paid for working at the charity shop.”

Stephanie works from 9am to 5.30pm four days a week and often does overtime. She says: “It feels like a proper job and gives me a sense of pride. I’d love to earn a wage from it – but I’d only get £13,000, which wouldn’t even be enough to pay our rent. I don’t feel I have a choice – I feel like this situation has been forced upon us by the
Government. The minimum wage is too low and you lose your benefits if you work, but they’re too easy to get if you don’t work.”

Even when the welfare Reform Bill – which aims to introduce an annual cap of £26,000 on benefits – comes in next year, the family could be exempt because Ian is “on the sick.”

Stephanie says: “If our benefits are cut, I don’t know how we’ll cope. Internet and phones will have to go and we might have to move to a smaller house and get rid of the car. It’ll be tough – but I understand it has to happen. There has to be an overhaul.

“I’m preparing for the change – I’m studying for an NVQ in retail and customer service, which I don’t have to pay for. If I have to get a job, I want a good one. But, for now, I just have to make the most of the system while I can.”
Ian adds: “I’d love to get a job, but if I work for more than an hour, I feel ill and get stressed. I take the kids to school and help with housework – but, sometimes, I have to sit down for half an hour if I feel light-headed.”

He adds: “I only get migraines every three weeks, but I qualify for sick pay – and if I didn’t take it, I wouldn’t have any money.”

By Jocelyn Cook

Posted by Miss_Jinxy

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

Wow on the sick because of headaches what a joke i have just been turned down for employment and support allowance i suffer for depression and anxiety and cant leave the house on my own yet I'm "fit to work" even though i cant leave the house on my own people like these make me sick government is giving the benefits to the lazy, junkies, alcoholics, obese and not giving it to the people who really need

Posted 29/05/2012 13:11:36

Posted by sian sharp

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

haha you can delete my comment !

Posted 29/05/2012 20:12:06

Posted by yasmine1234

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

i can not believe how people can abuse something like that "He can’t work due to headaches" is absolutely disgusting

Posted 29/05/2012 20:26:03

Posted by Eyeballs

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

People like you make me sick I have 5 kids my self I go to work 6 days a week and I have to pay full rent and councle tax as well as as national insurance road tax car insurance plus what ever other bill that needs to be payed.
I have a metal pin in my leg does that mean I can sit on my back side and claim all the benefits that I don't need. And you'd husband can't go to work because he gets a little bloody headache he needs to grow the hell up and take response ability for his kids and start paying back to us the general public that we have to pay for scrounges like you.
And if you can work 40hrs a week for free why not get paid for it and be a normal person no wonder this country is in the stat it is.
I hope the government see this and stop your money and all your car and what ever else you get

Posted 29/05/2012 22:06:37

Posted by Bluebell85

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

This is utterly shocking!!! I am disgusted by what I have read today, I feel for those who truly need and rely on benefits, but it is people like this that are ruining our country. I personally suffer from poor health but that does not stop me working full-time and looking after my father in law who since having a stroke is now totally dependent on my partner and I, this family should be ashamed of themselves!!!!

Posted 30/05/2012 11:01:37

Posted by sanand

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

absolutey disgusting the parents should be ashamed of themselves! what sort of example are they setting their children. i am 54 and have worked all my life paying taxes and to learn yet again they are being abused in this way is shocking. despite a pay freeze for 3yrs i still have to pay my mortgage, gas, electric etc without any benefits to help. i have had to sell my car, not had a holiday in years and cannot afford any extra's yet me and others like me are having to pay our taxes just to keep these and others like this family in the lap of luxury.
The government should seriously look into this and cap such benefits being paid out! its an absolute scandal!!!

Posted 30/05/2012 13:38:10

Posted by indi678678

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

Fair play to her the governmwent have put it on a plate for people like her to do it and she's doing the bets for her kids. Like any of you would turn that down? The only thing that's unfair is that she will have the same healthcare as someone paying tax but that goes for anyone on benefits. Hope she means it about the charity work thats much more beneficial to society than working for a corporation and paying invisible money into the black hole that's the banks.

Posted 30/05/2012 14:18:50

Posted by Soniashoegal

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

This absolutely disgusts me. He gets stressed and ill if he works more than an hour and has to sit down for half an hour because he gets light headed?! I've never heard anything so ludicrous in all my life. I have worked with people that have serious illnesses like leukaemia and they manage to get themselves into work This guy's a lazy, good for nothing scrounger. I bet he doesn't go light headed if he's stood in the pub for more than an hour spending the money we pay him to drink beer!

And as for the mother - if you have the time to work 40 hours per week for no income, then at least get paid for the work you do by working for an honest living like the rest of us. It clearly doesn't make you feel that guilty that you're scrounging off the State, as you're still doing it!

And finally, if you can't afford to pay for your kids without scrounging off the State - THEN DON'T HAVE 10!!

Posted 31/05/2012 13:37:06

Posted by mushypeas82

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

why is it so easy for these people who have NOTHING!!!! physically wrong with them claim (Incapacity Benefit and DLA)..

Its so unfair, as for genuine people like myself who has many ILLNESS ie crohns, Rheumatoid arthritis and suffer chronic neuralgia for weeks at a time get sweet (FA)... fit to work apparently.

You should feel guilty as you false claimants have done it for years and you never get caught, well I hope you do now and they stop your incapacity benefit and take the car you so clearly do not need and maybe the likes of people who actually need help getting out and about like myself start getting the benefit which is there in place for DISABLED PEOPLE.

Posted 31/05/2012 22:40:51

Posted by donnalou

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

This is disgraceful.....He should be ashamed of himself ...cant work due to headaches wot utter crap!.
I have arthritis in my knees and several discs in my back that are crumbling away im in pain everyday but still somehow manage to work...because i have to....im 36 yet was turned down for disability money as i didnt need full time care during the night...the system is a complete joke.

As for her, have some pride woman!!! You can do volunteer work (as good as that is) then u can work for a wage and support ur kids instead of expecting us tax payers to do it.

Posted 01/06/2012 10:00:52

Posted by Julie08

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

"We got the upgrade after we told the council we didn’t like our old house" - clearly beggars can be choosers these days
"The benefits are being offered to me, so I’d be silly to turn them down." - You wouldnt be silly, you would be honest and human.
"I know taxpayers are being punished – I hate taking their money." - then dont take their money and earn your own
"I want my kids to get good jobs" - Great example you are setting them.
“I only get migraines every three weeks, but I qualify for sick pay – and if I didn’t take it, I wouldn’t have any money.” - Get a job then you will have money you selfish idiot !!

I hope the government realise they are throwing our hard earned cash away for people like this.

Plenty of people out there are surviving on minimum wage and they may not have the luxuries of a big house, fancy car and internet service like you but they have a conscience that they arent scroungers like you. What a pair of scanky scum.

Posted 01/06/2012 13:05:27

Posted by pwincessjane

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

Gave me a headache reading this, now where can i find 10 children.......

Posted 01/06/2012 16:48:39

Posted by LittlePetal

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

I hope to God someone from the benefits office reads this and takes away their house nice a nice area with a good school and big garden, cos you isnt giving anything back to society. She isnt paying into the system she mooches off of and if she thinks people arent going to think that their a pikey benefit family after reading this then she's so desperately stupid she should be on the with disability benefit.

Posted 01/06/2012 16:57:15

Posted by LittlePetal

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

I hope to God someone from the benefits office reads this and takes away their house nice a nice area with a good school and big garden, cos you isnt giving anything back to society. She isnt paying into the system she mooches off of and if she thinks people arent going to think that their a pikey benefit family after reading this then she's so desperately stupid she should be on the with disability benefit.

Posted 01/06/2012 16:57:46

Posted by LittlePetal

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

I hope to God someone from the benefits office reads this and takes away their house nice a nice area with a good school and big garden, cos you isnt giving anything back to society. She isnt paying into the system she mooches off of and if she thinks people arent going to think that their a pikey benefit family after reading this then she's so desperately stupid she should be on the with disability benefit.

Posted 01/06/2012 16:57:47

Posted by LittlePetal

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

I hope to God someone from the benefits office reads this and takes away their house nice a nice area with a good school and big garden, cos you isnt giving anything back to society. She isnt paying into the system she mooches off of and if she thinks people arent going to think that their a pikey benefit family after reading this then she's so desperately stupid she should be on the with disability benefit.

Posted 01/06/2012 16:57:48

Posted by L00ty

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

On the sick for 2 decades due to headaches?? My husband gets crippling migraines at least twice a week and still holds down a 20+ hrs a week job! Yes you might get more money living on benefits like this but you can't put a price on self-respect!

Posted 05/06/2012 17:32:46

Posted by sugar sweet

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

"the mum says it makes more sense for her to work for free than earn a wage that would be a fraction of the handouts she’d then lose"

well of course it would! i dont blame her i blame the system and the government, as she says why would she risk her home, lifestyle etc to work for less than she is she being given for free? something needs to change to give people more incentive to work than to stay home.

the one thing i will say is that at least she's doing SOMETHING valuable with her time in helping a charity!

i agree with all the comments as well about the sickness benefit my mum suffers a lot with depression and has also had mental breakdowns but they fail to recognise this as a reason somebody cannot work yet you cant hold down a job if you are unable to think straight or look after yourself!

its the same old mantra of one rule for some and one for another but im sick to death or getting annoyed about these ppl because it doesnt change a thing!

Posted 08/06/2012 13:31:59

Posted by Janeyshare

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

It's the benefits system that stinks. This family are only ONE of thousands doing exactly the same thing. When are the government going to wake up and realise hardworking families are sick to death of hearing these disgusting stories, the harder we work the more tax we pay to cover the cost of these scroungers! If they stopped paying any benefits to people who continue to have children they have absolutely no intention of supporting themselves I think things would soon change . Condoms would be fashionable again!

Posted 10/06/2012 21:40:26

Posted by Proudmummy91

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

This makes me sick! Yes I was on the benefits system for 6 months as my partner got laid off from work, everyday in those six months we were looking for work and now finally we have found some. We pay all our rent all our council tax feed and clothe our 2 children. Yes we were better off on benefits but the pride and respect you get when u r in work is so much more and showing my 2 children not too be lay a bouts and show them how enjoyable it is too work is the best. I am so proud to not be on the benefits system and it makes me sick when people abuse it. Headaches r u joking I've suffered from a really bad back problem for six years and my partner gets anxiety attacks we never once claimed disability living allowance even when we were entitled. YOU PEOPLE ARE A JOKE SHOW! No wonder all these kids r growing up like they r wiv parents like this!!! I've got nothing against people on benefits but I have got a lot against people who abuse the system we r lucky to have it in this country to help those in the most need

Posted 15/06/2012 22:12:20

Posted by LauRussell

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

I get headaches while i'm working, in fact i get migranes and end up being sick with it but i keep carry on as i need the money. Makes me sick that someone can sit on their arse all day and can't work due to "headaches" get a job like every normal person!!

Posted 20/06/2012 17:09:28

Posted by lawstudent

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

Something really needs to be done with families like this. The government seriously need a major think about this better. Families like this are nothing but scroungers, low lives, wasters in OUR society. When people from the forces come back from duty they should be the ones getting houses to live in etc not these people who sit down all day doing nothing. Who cares if you get 'headaches' whoop de whoop. Grow up and be a man, support your family and stop taking OUR taxes to aid your living expenses. As for the mother she has her GCSE's if she wants to help out society get a job, go down to the job centre. If both of you work then there will be a decent salary to feed and look after your children and no longer TAKE from OUR taxes. These children will experience the same thing and will follow for the mother and fathers examples and that is how the chain begins again. Teach YOUR children the correct way to live, and both of you grow up and get off your chair and do something productive.

Posted 21/06/2012 01:11:20

Posted by bab2710

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

And this country wonders why we get so many illegal immigrants wanting to come here?? Cause they get everything for FREE!!! Disgusting!!

Posted 28/06/2012 15:38:16

Posted by Elle London

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

This family is so pathetic I can't even bring myself to read the entire article. If the mother feels that her working in a charity shop makes her "not lazy" then fine. I'm not buying it, but fine. Regardless of the charity work she's still a scrounger, living off an economy she is almost definitely too stupid to even understand.

As for the, frankly, absolutely revolting husband, there are really no words to describe how utterly useless he is and apparently has been his entire life. This man hasn't worked for two decades, thats almost my entire life. He's also fathered seven children (despite the excruciating headaches he apparently suffers) therefore only adding to the money the state take from me and every other hard working individual.

I'll be paying for this disgusting brute, his delusional wife and probably the majority, if not all, of their ten offspring, thanks to the terrible example they're setting, for the rest of my life. Thanks!

Blame the state benefits if you want, the system is definitely flawed. I blame the layabout families who think it is acceptable to bring their children up with zero work ethic and no understanding of why the benefits system is in place. How many of the ten offspring will go on to live in rented accommodation paid for my the tax payer while they continue to spawn more and more children to drain our economy?

Meanwhile graduates are left tens of thousands of pounds in debt, therefore paying off student loans WITH added interest as well as high levels of tax as soon as they're earning. Why should I pay for these losers? The system was put in place to keep afloat people who are unable to work FOR A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. It is not supposed to be a living wage.

Clearly some people are happy to live, with no ambition to better their skills and abilities, as scrounging bottom feeders. I don't know how they bear to show their faces in the photograph.

Posted 29/06/2012 11:54:45

Posted by Elle London

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

This family is so pathetic I can't even bring myself to read the entire article. If the mother feels that her working in a charity shop makes her "not lazy" then fine. I'm not buying it, but fine. Regardless of the charity work she's still a scrounger, living off an economy she is almost definitely too stupid to even understand.

As for the, frankly, absolutely revolting husband, there are really no words to describe how utterly useless he is and apparently has been his entire life. This man hasn't worked for two decades, thats almost my entire life. He's also fathered seven children (despite the excruciating headaches he apparently suffers) therefore only adding to the money the state take from me and every other hard working individual.

I'll be paying for this disgusting brute, his delusional wife and probably the majority, if not all, of their ten offspring, thanks to the terrible example they're setting, for the rest of my life. Thanks!

Blame the state benefits if you want, the system is definitely flawed. I blame the layabout families who think it is acceptable to bring their children up with zero work ethic and no understanding of why the benefits system is in place. How many of the ten offspring will go on to live in rented accommodation paid for my the tax payer while they continue to spawn more and more children to drain our economy?

Meanwhile graduates are left tens of thousands of pounds in debt, therefore paying off student loans WITH added interest as well as high levels of tax as soon as they're earning. Why should I pay for these losers? The system was put in place to keep afloat people who are unable to work FOR A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. It is not supposed to be a living wage.

Clearly some people are happy to live, with no ambition to better their skills and abilities, as scrounging bottom feeders. I don't know how they bear to show their faces in the photograph.

Posted 29/06/2012 11:55:05

Posted by Bugs94

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

vf

Posted 08/04/2013 01:37:50

Posted by Bugs94

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

My mum claims DLA and has for the past 13years due to multiple health problems, depression & anxiety. She gets less than £5000 a year in benefits. She also has to fill out huge forms which are sent anually and have regular assessment which get her in such a state that she literally pulls her hair out. She also suffers from migraines regularly but this is not her main health problem, she has difficulties walking, severe back pain, thyroid problems and uses morphine patches daily, yet she is not entitled to any carers allowance. It seems to me that the womans husbands illness must be more severe than is being made out in this article for him to qualify for such support. He probably is unable to work as what employer would employ someone who is off sick every 3 weeks and take regular rest breaks when there are more than enough healthy unemployed inidivudals who can do the job? If my mum had the appropriate care and was allowed to take time off sick regularly she would be capable of working but the matter is that noonoe would employ her.. before she became redundant from her job in insurance when she was worsening health wise 13 years ago she was earning £30,000 a year and would have been a lot better off than she is on benefits!


These stories are aimed at firing people up to criticise benefit claimants to justify cuts that many people like my mum need.. most people don't get these ammounts & for the people saying this family is living in the lap of luxury i highly doubt it, most of the benefits go on there housing, which is not more than adequate for the family size and she even admits to having to buy second hand clothing and she does have to pay for atleast 6 children! If she worked she would not lose all her benefit either she would be entitled to the majoirty of her housing benefit and all her child benefits etc.

Posted 08/04/2013 01:39:21

Posted by Bugs94

RE: ‘I claim 50k worth of handouts I don’t need!

Can I also add that if people think that making benefits cuts will result in tax cuts they are very mistaken & it will have no benefit to them whatsoever.. but you may find yourself one day too ill to work and have people looking down on you for taking help you desperately need to live on and only then will benefits cuts impact on your lives- negatively might I add!

There are insufficient jobs anyway for even healthy workers, so the real problem is that the governement need to look at creating more jobs, rather than cutting jobs... even if these people are lazy as you say, there are plenty of unemployed hard working people who are looking for work, if one lazy person manages to get a job it will only mean someone else won't as there arn't enough jobs for everyone due to the capitalist economy.. thats the issue not the welfare state!

Posted 08/04/2013 01:53:01



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