Posted by ParaPrincess
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Babies don't look like anything for at least a year, who did she think the baby would look like? Genetics!
Posted 24/07/2010 22:20:22
Posted by EmmaLouise2010
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Completly Disagree With The Comment Above. This Woman Has Been Through A Huge Amount, And You'll Probably Find That Wether The Baby Looks Anything Like Him Or Not..It Will Always Remind Her Of Him. Cant Of Been An Easy Decision To Make.
Posted 25/07/2010 15:32:06
Posted by teampete
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Poor woman ---- scummy rapist - --- fair play for giving the child the chance of a good life. I couldn't raise the child of a rapist without seeing it's sperm doner (because that creature certainly isn't a father) in it's face and the only reason he admitted having sex with her is because of DNA evidence.
Good luck in your life - and I hope you can move on from this
Posted 26/07/2010 09:42:16
Posted by n.s
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
How tragic is this case. She was a child herself.
Posted 26/07/2010 15:43:22
Posted by emma parkinson
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Paraprincess do you have children ?? because i have 2 and my youngest child came out and was and still is the double of her dad,the midwife couldnt believe how much she looked like her dad so i totally disagree.
your lack of respect for this poor woman who not only been raped by that monster but also had the guts 2 carry and give birth 2 the child,they are so many teens out there that have an abortion at the drop of a hat,i fully respect this woman for giving the baby a chance of a life.
i wish her all the luck and hope she will eventually move on from this.
Posted 27/07/2010 16:00:23
Posted by sugar sweet
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
this poor lady, no-one would be able to say what they would do in this situation, its not even just the fact that the baby looks like the rapist but it would be a constant reminder of what happened,and she was so young that she wasnt ready to have a baby either.
as if its not bad enough being raped but then having to give up her baby too i hope maybe one day when the child is older he may trace his mum and they may be able to have a relationship.
Posted 27/07/2010 16:18:48
Posted by ParaPrincess
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
I still stand by 'who did she think the baby would look like?'
Posted 27/07/2010 18:31:00
Posted by sugar sweet
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
and thats still a cruel thing to say, whether she thought it would look like him or not its still difficult to come to terms with she had no choice! even if she knew he would look like that evil rapist how the hell are you supposed to prepare for that!
Posted 28/07/2010 09:31:09
Posted by n.s
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Jesus, do you know how childish you sound ParaPrincess?
She had been raped and just gone through the pain of child
birth at the age of 16!! She probably wasn't THINKING very
much at this point other than the agony both mentally and physically she had just been through. As Emma Parkinson
has pointed out new born babies can look like people as soon as they are born. My daughter looked the image of my nan who had died a while previously, and it shocked me to the core (in a good way) she totally changed over the next
day or so, but it was a shock. So can you imagine how she felt, even if she did know there was a chance the baby could look like the animal who raped her.
Oh, and you obviously haven't got kids to make a stupid
comment about babies not looking like anything for a year!!
Unbelievable..
Posted 28/07/2010 09:32:02
Posted by ParaPrincess
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Why didn't she have an abortion then? He claims it was consensual, sick as it sounds yet I know a lot of young women who sleep with older men for things. One 20 odd year old was sleeping with a 70 year old so he'd buy her breast enlargement.
Posted 29/07/2010 18:53:06
Posted by emma parkinson
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
paraprincess you are unbelieveable,just because he CLAIMS its consensual dosnt mean it was for gods sake hes not gonna turn around and say "yes i raped her",she was 16 and brave enough to give this child the chance of a life they are way too many teenagers that think they are adult enough to have sex but arnt prepared to deal with the pregnancy that comes along and of course have the same mind as you and think ITS OK LETS JUST HAVE AN ABORTION.i think your sick and your lack of compassion for this girl is unbelieveable.i pry for your sake you or someone close to you never have to deal with what this brave girl has gone through.the fact you said you "know alot of young women who sleep with older men for things"just shows what kind of person you really are.
Posted 29/07/2010 19:58:39
Posted by teampete
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
ParaPrincess - what I want to say about you is unprintable and I hope you never have to look at your own child pregnant by a predatory rapist B****
Posted 30/07/2010 13:07:51
Posted by n.s
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
ParaPrincess
This vile excuse of a man is a child molester. He groomed her at the age of 14. She was still a baby herself for God sake. So do you think a child would have the idea that if she
sleeps with an old man (which is what he was to her at her age) she will get presents or something. That idea would only have been put into head by him. That's what these monsters do, they get into children's heads with threats and promises. How can you even think what he did to her wasn't rape?? You are a very cold and person without an
ounce of compassion in your body. You should be ashamed
of your comments, but I bet you're not.
Posted 30/07/2010 13:42:49
Posted by sugar sweet
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
paraprincess you are one sick cold cow writing that! it wouldnt even cross my mind that a 14 year old girl would willingly have sex with a 61 year old man for money or any other personal gain! this man was quite clearly a peodophile and a sick pervert making her watch porn and grooming her to persuade her to have sex with him, maybe she didnt say no but this is because he groomed her and made her think that there was nothing wrong with what was going on! this is what grooming is you idiotic women just because you and your porn friends have sex with any old bloke for money doesnt mean a 14 year old would! SHE WAS 14! A CHILD!
Posted 30/07/2010 14:39:36
Posted by sugar sweet
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
also abortion sometimes isnt an option ppl feel comfortable with maybe she was one such person! soem ppl cannot do it even if they are not ready for a baby or she may well have found out too late or have been too scared to tell anyone so by the time she did it was too late to have one! ive read some of your other comments and think ur incredibily insensitive and ignorant!
Posted 30/07/2010 14:50:55
Posted by ParaPrincess
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Wow so many responses! From people who avidly read such tripe as Closer magazine. Have you got this week's Take a Break too? Have you even got jobs? There are 3 sides to every story, yours, theirs and the TRUTH.
Posted 02/08/2010 13:05:17
Posted by n.s
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
You really are a lovely person aren't you. It must be nice to swan through life and never give a toss about anyone else.
Actually I do have a job thanks, and as for reading Closer,
wtf are you doing??? silly girl.
Posted 02/08/2010 13:14:40
Posted by sugar sweet
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
lmao para you pratt yes ive got a nice little job thanks one not that your one to talk what were you to think to get a real job so you've got to f**k guys for money on film? im not saying theres anything wrong with doing porn but not when your slating people for poetentially not having jobs with the way you earn your living! you really must be thick for slagging us off for reading closer look at the top of the page what does it say! idiot! you cant even back up your pathetic previous comments so have to turn to insults!
Posted 02/08/2010 13:42:55
Posted by sugar sweet
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
*Thick not think
Posted 02/08/2010 13:45:24
Posted by Kate989589
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Abortions can cause infertility among other side affects. Also if she was going through this much she was probably completly unaware of the pregnancy until it was too late, possibly in denial, because admiting she was pregnant would alo mean she would have to confess to her parents of the abuse. I think the other posters here with their heads screwed on should just ignore paraprincess, shes cleary a troll looking for attention that she probably doesnt get at home.
My heart goes out to this poor women, I hope that b*stard gets whats coming to him. Bring back the death penalty as far as im concerned.
**** Don't feed the trolls****
Posted 04/08/2010 07:28:54
Posted by jodes
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
I feel I should say something about this story.
I, like my younger sister am a rapists baby. I have grown up knowing this and what that monster did to my mother. He like the man in this story was someone my mum thought she could trust as he was married to her mother. After having my sister 16 months after me she finally spoke up about what she went through and he got what he deserved.
I wanted to let everyone know that despite what he did my mum went through with HER pregnacies and brought up HER daughters. She has always made the point that we are no one elses girls but hers.
It kills me knowing that I could look like him and I thank God everyday that I dont but even if I did she would love me the same as she has done for the last 22 years of my life.
It made me feel sick reading that paraprincess would even think that someone as young as 14 would know what they are doin to seduce an older man just to get certain things. So a message to paraprincess: WHOEVER YOU KNOW THAT WOULD DO THIS IS CLEARLY NOT RIGHT IN THE HEAD.
Thank you to all the posters that have stuck up for this girl, it was her decision to give the child up. Not everyone is strong enough to go through a pregnancy by rape and its up to them what they want to do.
Posted 04/08/2010 19:49:35
Posted by stefani6938
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
I wish the girl luck in her life. it doesnt matter about anyones oppinion whether it was a good desicion or not. she was obviously traumatised and so so young... put yourself in her shoes if you dare to... i hope this lady can try to move on and have a happy life.
Posted 04/08/2010 23:40:20
Posted by n.s
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
Jodes, your mother is an inspiration. I wish you, her and your sister happiness and love.
Posted 05/08/2010 09:16:12
Posted by DVbaby
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
ParaPrincess i tottally dissagree with your punk ass, have you got children or have you been given up for adoption, she gave the child something that she knew she could give him/her. she could feel that her baby looked liked its father. being adopted myself i know what it feels like. and maybe the child will have a better life - no offence to the mother who gave it up in any way-
Posted 07/02/2011 04:39:30
Posted by stoleninnocence
RE: Mum gives up 'rape' baby for adoption
my name is tara murray and i was 5 yrs old when this animal repeatedly raped me i am now 31 yrs old he said the same thing to me and i told on him and i went into care till i was 18 yrs old i have never recovered from what he did to me and have spent over 20yrs in therapy over it he destroyed my life and because he admitted to indecent assault he got probation for it in 1981 the yr i was born he raped an 8 yr old girl and yet he was allowed to prey on this poor girl who had his baby i would of done the same thing as her my heart bleeds for her every day same as all his other victims he has destroyed so many lives i hope he dies in jail better still i hope they put him in general population and the screws let slip he is a nonce
Posted 24/09/2012 03:32:58