Posted by rjdj
RE: Anti-bullying rant goes viral after newsreader receives cruel comments about her weight
The real bully - is actually her. She took a private message and made it into a public event. No matter what she thought of the guy or what he wrote - she knew that he would be hounded and abused by the press and public.
No matter how many people talk about what a beautiful person she is - she is actually fat. Criticising someone just because of their appearance is a cheap insult - but saying that being fat, unless it's due to a medical condition, is absolutely OK is definitely the wrong message to give.
Posted 12/10/2012 14:52:27
Posted by SummerInFrance
RE: Anti-bullying rant goes viral after newsreader receives cruel comments about her weight
I completely disagree with rjdj. In the email, he says she is a bad role model for 'girls in particular'. Would you prefer girls' role models to be women with bleach blonde hair, loads of make up, and boob and bum implants? I think it's good that she can stand up for herself, and OK, obesity isn't healthy, but she's barely overweight. I personally would rather my children had her as a role model than a popstar that dresses revealingly, and is completely fake, sending the message that all girls have to do is look sexy for men. And who does he think he is, telling her she needs to lose weight to be on TV? People can look like what they want, and they can't help it. Maybe she's naturally big, but it's no one else's responsibility to tell someone how they should look.
Posted 18/10/2012 10:54:04
Posted by SummerInFrance
RE: Anti-bullying rant goes viral after newsreader receives cruel comments about her weight
I completely disagree with rjdj. In the email, he says she is a bad role model for 'girls in particular'. Would you prefer girls' role models to be women with bleach blonde hair, loads of make up, and boob and bum implants? I think it's good that she can stand up for herself, and OK, obesity isn't healthy, but she's barely overweight. I personally would rather my children had her as a role model than a popstar that dresses revealingly, and is completely fake, sending the message that all girls have to do is look sexy for men. And who does he think he is, telling her she needs to lose weight to be on TV? People can look like what they want, and they can't help it. Maybe she's naturally big, but it's no one else's responsibility to tell someone how they should look.
Posted 18/10/2012 10:54:08
Posted by rjdj
RE: Anti-bullying rant goes viral after newsreader receives cruel comments about her weight
He wrote an email directly to her expressing concern about her size. He wasn't using crude abuse or insults. "She's barely overweight" .. really? What would you consider to be overweight then? Are people only "fat" to you when they are so big they can't move without help?
Girls are being forcefed completely contradictory ideas of "beauty" - skinny/curvy, makeup/natural, etc. That's not the issue here. His email is about health not beauty.
I'm guessing you support "fat acceptance". The message going around now that fat is "beautiful". But just like bulimia and anorexia can ruin health and even kill, so can obesity. Heart disease or diabetes are not "beautiful".
Anyway, back to my main point - she made this a public event. The guy was tracked down and hounded for expressing his concern. It turned out the guy himself used to be fat and worked hard to lose weight and get in shape. The media frenzy inspired by her was a bullying tactic - how dare he even suggest that she should think about what message she is giving to her viewers. Time for some revenge.
Should he have bothered to write to her? I wouldn't have. And I'm sure he regrets taking the time to do it - but the message was not sent to bully.
Posted 18/10/2012 11:09:56
Posted by cmx
RE: Anti-bullying rant goes viral after newsreader receives cruel comments about her weight
I personally don't believe her weight is an issue, but then again I don't think she should have victimized the person who sent the email. What he or she said was not okay, but she should not have blown it up the way she did. Let her be the size she wants, obesity should not be anyone's goal and it isn't in particularly healthy, but we don't know her fitness regime or diet.
Posted 12/12/2012 11:44:06
Posted by cmx
RE: Anti-bullying rant goes viral after newsreader receives cruel comments about her weight
I personally don't believe her weight is an issue, but then again I don't think she should have victimized the person who sent the email. What he or she said was not okay, but she should not have blown it up the way she did. Let her be the size she wants, obesity should not be anyone's goal and it isn't in particularly healthy, but we don't know her fitness regime or diet.
Posted 12/12/2012 11:44:45